why men are so obsessed with the SIZE of their penis? does the size matters to girls?

Question

boys, teens, men and adults seems too concern with their penis size, are women very particular with the men penis size. is having sex measured how big the penis is? maybe im not so affected because im 16 yrs old and my penis is 9" but my elder bro is 18 yrs old and his penis is 3" when erect..(he will kill me if he finds out that i put his penis size in the net). we have a big difference in term of penis size...but he kind of accept the fact that he can't do anything about it and he has this hot GF that everybody would envy...he also had a massive tongue..he said whatever he lacks in his penis size he had more in his tongue he would rather use it. can he really use his tongue as penis???

at 16 im still a virgin but my elder bro start having sex at 15

Answer 1

Ummm well okay if this is true I can't speak for all women but my views based on all the girls' opinions I've read here say yeah size isn't that important (in fact most vaginas won't be 9 in long, and the most sensitive bits are at the beginning) and girth and foreplay and general technique are more important anyway. If your brother does well by giving girls oral with his giant tongue then good for him, I bet he's popular

Answer 2

Size really really really does not matter to any woman worth having a relationship with. Only people who watch a lot of porn think size is important! The penises in porn are computer enhanced so they look huge, and all the guys who watch this bilge think those horse-sized penises are normal. If a woman watches porn a lot, she might get a similar illusion. But the truth is they all work the same, and a small one is exactly as good as a medium size one. Too big, however, can be very painful for a woman, so I hope you are not really 9", because if you are, many women will not want something that big forced into their vaginas, and you might have a lot of trouble finding a woman who wants to have a sexual relationship with you.

Answer 3

Do an experiment and find out the real answer:

Pick any woman and ask:

Your boyfriend/husband has been duplicated. Everything is perfectly identical except the size of his penis. On the duplicate, his penis is 3" bigger. Except for the bigger penis, they are identical. Which one do you pick to keep?

Most women will be going home with the bigger penis; provided all other things are absolutely identical. This means, whether anyone likes it or not, size does indeed matter.

Answer 4

actually,the nerves that give to the brain the message of satisfaction while a woman is having sex with a man,are in the "entrance" of the genital bodies of a woman.
so,the size of the penis doesn't matter,because the result is the same...
but due to the fact that a big percent of the sex is in our mind,the size counts just for the satisfaction of the eye.
for example(an easy one),if a woman is up to have sex with someone who has a big penis,then,she her brain will start producing new cells,because she is up to live something special,and the satisfaction is getting bigger,because she's prepared for this,and she already has it in her mind.
that's why,some believe that the size counts.but,because no one thinks of biology while having sex,it's better if the penis is bigger...
i hope that you understood what I'm talking about...

PS:your brother can use his tongue instead of his penis,because of the nerves that are in the entrance of the genital bodies of the woman,so,the result of satisfaction is the same,because the mind works the same as if it was a penis,and not a tongue...

Answer 5

Oh My !! How old are you ?
Sounds like you already answered your question without realizing it !
Most women are not that interested in penis size the way men are. They are not focussed upon domination and subjection like many men are. This is a spin off of the 'male Rivalry' thing. In other words, - Who is 'top dog' ?
If your brother is proficient with his tongue he will have one very happy girlfriend !

Answer 6

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Answer 7

maximum white adult men could care much less approximately black adult men's penises. Its black adult men who flaunt it around and tell each and every person. the only difficulty that runs with the aid of a black guy's recommendations is "muh dik" for the reason that's the only issues they are able to be proud approximately.

Answer 8

Well I've had sex with guys with small penis's and big penis's and I'm sorry but the larger penis's are almost always way better.

I dunno why girls are always like 'oh it so doesn't matter about size' maybe they think its what guys want to hear, but the fact is it matters a bit. True you can have crap sex with a guy who has a big d*ck if he doesn't know what hes doing, but if a guys penis is so small that you cant even feel it inside you then I'm sorry but the sex is gonna be crap. No matter what his 'technique' is or whatever its gonna be crap. Now I'm not talking about foreplay or oral i mean the actual act of penetration itself will not be good for a woman if the guys penis is tiny.

No matter how big your brothers tongue is, yeah maybe he will be able to give great oral sex and that's good, but he wont be able to pound his girlfriend hard and fast when they are having sex and whether they admit it or not, at one time or another, most girls just want a good rough pounding with a normal to large d*ck.

Guys are so obsessed with their penis size for a reason, coz deep down they know that size really DOES matter a little bit.

Answer 9

the whole hype and stereotype were created by or at least steamrolled by hollow American culture, predominantly low self-esteemed penis-envy white males, probably felt threatened by blacks and their stereotypes. it's all non-sense and silly to the extreme. penis shapes and sizes vary. there is no average standard to go by. everyone's is normal. some are big. others are small. if any woman who says she wants huge penises, she is either lying to fit in to her shallow immature group of so-called friends or delusional from living in her bubble or masochistic.

go watch the UK documentary "My Penis and Everyone Else's"
http://www.imdb.com/title/tt1101658/
and realize that some males in UK and other Europeans have penis with size of 3 inches or less. black Europeans too. plus, there's an interview with a Hollywood guy who got penis surgically enlarged from 8 to 10 inches or something around there, but later they found him still unhappy with himself, his life and sex. that's a clear example of shallowness and how extremely ridiculous Hollywoodians and Americans have become. and do you know how they do it surgically? by taking your butt fat and putting it in your penis. that's as brutal and disgusting and even demeaning as horrible surgery nightmares of nasty breast jobs for women, not to mention down-the-line future problems and side-effects.

so what does that tell you about the hype, the generalizing and the stereotyping? this also reminds me of Europeans laughing at Americans with their buff muscles and spending so much time in the gym working out; it's a sign of weakness, low self-esteem, at least to Europeans and their cultures.