how do you handle it if people look at you with sad eyes alot, like they know something you don't, like they

Question

know something bad is going to happen to you, or they know your not going to make it in life, they know you won't pull through your tough times?

i feel i experience this alot and i find it very depressing and i find it hard to ignore.

almost like the way people would look at a cancer patient, trying to be strong for him/her, telling them that they'll pull through....but really theres sadness evident in their eyes, because they know deep down the cancer victim won't make it.

i feel people look upon me like this to alot. iam 30 with bpd that ive been battling with for a long time, and i dont want to be looked on in this way, treated as different from everybody.

maybe their just sympathizing with my traumatic life, but it makes me feel weird, unusual and different, different from the rest.

Answer 1

Maybe you're paranoid, ever think of that? Maybe you need to meet new people who don't know about your condition. Maybe you need to study humor so you can tell some jokes and make them laugh. Or maybe you're projecting your feelings onto them. Or maybe if you stop looking sad they'll stop looking sad, too. And, for what it's worth, what people think doesn't mean it will come true, it's just their opinion.

Answer 2

You are very sensible, people do not deserve attention more than usual and / I am not very religious/ but Satane like to play such games- enter in souls under masc of fault compasion to overcome the natural defensif reaction - so believe mainly to your close friends and family.