my friend and i are both straight and we were at my place alone one day working at the computer and we started mucking out hitting each other and slapping each other on the ***. then when it calmed down he reached across and grapped my penis and started stoking it, at first i was shocked and the i just let him do it, was that wrong or is it normal to have a gay moment in your life, what should i have done?
2007-09-24 20:48:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yuk.
2007-09-24 20:52:02 · answer #1 · answered by ellen 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't say how old your best friend is, older or younger than you, if he is older than you he should know better and you can report him for it, you will go through a faze of having homosexual experiences during your puberty, it does not mean you are gay, it was something that happened on the spur of the moment, but as you say after your initial shock you let him continue to stroke your penis, feeling the sensation probably for the first time with someone else, but if you feel very uncomfortable about and don't want this to happen again, be straight forward and upright with your friend and tell him that you don't want this sort of thing to occur again and that if he persists in doing it, you will inform your parents and then have his parents informed about it.
2007-09-25 06:20:25 · answer #2 · answered by mrlonely_solonely_immrlonely 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say that at this point in your life you're probably curious but that doesn't make you gay. If it made you feel uncomfortable then just say it... if you went with the flow, your friend is probably thinking that you liked it and will probably do it again. If you are like best of friends then just let him know that what you guys did was not okay and that you don't want to do that again but that you want to keep being friends. He'll be embarrassed at first but will respect you for being honest and straight forward. Just don't go around saying to your other friends what happened... keep it in the past and forget about it.
2007-09-27 15:16:46 · answer #3 · answered by Mother'f3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You probably should have just told him it was inappropriate and you didn't like it, if that's how you felt.
Beyond that, if he is your friend and you want to keep his friendship, I'd let it go if I were you.
Behavior among young men can on occasion take a sexual turn. If you want to remain straight and you aren't sure about his sexuality you probably need to set down some rules about what does and doesn't go.
I am heterosexual and have had a number of homosexual friends. We always knew where we stood with each other and we were able to remain friends.
2007-09-25 03:55:39 · answer #4 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In the first place, I think you're lying.Secondly, if youre not lying,I think you should confront him, tell him youre not gay and never do something like that again!!!
Yes it's wrong andtheres no such thing as a normal "gay moment". Either you're gay or youre straight...No gay moments, no touching other guys, STRAIGHT!
2007-09-25 03:56:40 · answer #5 · answered by jancoetzee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to get curious at some point in your life. That doesn't mean your gay. Maybe you need to evaluate your relationship with him and maybe ask him if he's had those thoughts before.
2007-09-25 03:55:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kc B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thhis is a serious question
nah i dont think ur gay at all
it was just a normal feeling
plesure is plesure
you should talk to the dude and ask him what was going through is mind!
2007-09-25 03:53:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
well im not saying your gay but i think your friend might be, i have had many friends that claim to be strait and many many years later come out, it's incidents like that that make you wonder. ya you maybe should have asked him what he was doing, just dont let it happend again hun.
2007-09-25 03:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OMG......... YOU NEED TO DO SOMETHING. APPARENTLY NO HE IS NOT STRAIGHT... DON'T GET THAT MIXED UP. THAT IS GROSS. YOU NEED TO NOT BE IN DENIAL. AND BEING 14 TELL YOUR MOM SEE WHAT SHE THINKS OR TELL YOUR DAD. OR TALK TO ANOTHER FRIEND THEY WILL ALL SAY IF HE STROKED YOU HE ISN'T JUST STRAIGHT. NOT EVERYONE HAS A GAY MOMENT NO. AND IF I SEE TWO GUYS SMACKING EACH OTHERS ***, THEN THAT IS GAY.
2007-09-25 03:55:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
you should have made him stop . you are only 14 you should not be doing all that stuff now and no it is not normal to have gay moments like that if you are not gay
2007-09-25 03:55:01 · answer #10 · answered by kelly 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Dude.... don't ever tell anyone .... and deny all gay feelings for the rest of your life you will be ok...
2007-09-25 03:53:17 · answer #11 · answered by Wolfie 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋