bleeding more?

Question

i have posted a few on bleeding, yesterday it was really heavy and was pouring out me. Its red and i also had a bit o cramp not really bad but def cramp. Im still bleeding lots today, it started on thurs but was browny then but now red. Had scan on fri but sac too small to see anythin in it. i have to go back a week 2moro i know im def going in for them to confirm my fears. Im maybe 5- 7 wks pregnant. Im 26 whats my chances of conceiving again soon after this? we have been trying for a year thats why im so upset.

Answer 1

I think your chances are good for concieving again.

Answer 2

Hi Joanne, I read your question the other day and kept my fingers crossed for you as I went through exactly the same thing 4 weeks ago. I found out i was pregnant on the Wednesday, spotted on the Friday and bled fairly heavily from Sunday to Tuesday. I saw the doctor on the tuesday and he said that there was nothing they could do until i was 6 weeks so had to wait another week before visiting preg day care unit at hospital. They confirmed that i had had a miscarriage, althoug i already "knew" myself anyway. I was told that you can start trying again as soon as the bleeding has stopped but they prefer you to wait until you have had a normal period so that it is easier to date the pregnancy. It is the last thing on my mind at the moment, although i know that things happen for a reason, i am struggling to come to terms with the fact that my body did not do what it is intended for. I have a six year old and carried with no problems with her. You should be most fertile for the next 3 months if you have miscarried. I will keep you in my thoughts and hope that you are one of the 50% of people who bleed in pregnancy and carry to term. Please look after yourself and if the worst has happened, talk to people and don't bottle your feelings up. All the best. Nooka.

Answer 3

oh hun, im so sorry. I had a missed m/c back in july 2000 and i still think about it now. As for your chances of concieving again soon, well there is no way really of knowing how long it will take. I fell pregnant again 5 months after my m/c but im sure you know its different for everyone. You know you can get pregnant so im afraid it will be just a case of wait and see.Just make sure that you are ready to try again, both emotionally and physically. I wish you all the best for the future hun and i hope you dont have to wait too long xx

Answer 4

You poor sweetie, I know what yr feeling. I am 38 and conceived first time this year, (with newly found love of my life after only 3 months. Thought I'd won the lottery, only better!). I lost it at 8 weeks and I've not conceived again, but you're only 26! The body very often has a practice shot at pregnancy...nearly everyone I know who has kids had a miscarriage first time, not much consolation I know, but true.

Nobody talks about miscarriage, it's taboo. I found that.

I had agonising cramps with mine, off the scale of pain, like labour twice a day for a fortnight. I lost all sorts of clots etc, one of which was my baby. We gave her a funeral, just me and her daddy.

I hope you're not miscarrying, I really do, but if you are you must give yourself time to grieve, then be happy and positive in trying again.


Best of luck. x

Answer 5

If you are bleeding bright red blood, then you should be seen by a doctor pronto. Don't wait until your next appointment. Will you be able to conceive again? That's something the doctor can answer for you. The most important thing right now is for you to take care of yourself.

Answer 6

Oh sweetie, I really feel for you - big hugs. xx

You should let your body adjust back to normal after, give it a few months, I know its hard cos you will want to start trying again, but you need to have a couple of normal periods first to ensure your body has healed itself well enough for you to try again. If you try again too early, you are setting yourself up for heartache again, so please give it time.

talk to the doctor about it and see how long he suggests waiting.

xx