I have been overweight and dieting most of my life.
I have never had a serious relationship, I am always scared.
Most of the guys I like don't even know I am alive.
I have been in college the past 6 years of my life and I stil
have 1 more year to go before I am done my BA.
I don't know. Sometimes I feel like I should have already
worked this stuff out. I am a nice person, I volunteer, I am kind to animals, good to my parents. Why am I alone?
2007-09-24 20:36:20 · 5 answers · asked by Okay Hero 2 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Hi, we are under Libra sign now- guiding planet Venus likes to respond to questions as yours asked during her Zodiac ruling - I am sure you will meet someone special in few months.
2007-09-24 21:13:37 · answer #1 · answered by IndrisOK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because you are not happy with what you are and what you do...you need to take a step back and look at your life. Are you happy being in school studying what you are studying. Are you happy volunteering.
The most deadly lie people tell you is that altruism is good. Actually, no. Altruists (in a true sense of the word) kill their self-worth. Do not let that happen to you. You have to always be proud of who you are and be happy with what you are doing. Be certain that it is what you want to do. Being 6 yearsi n school to get a bachelors does not seem like you want to be on the path that you are on. It is time to rethink your life and make it the life you want to be. Read some Ayn Rand. Maybe that will get you on the right track.
It is never too late to start living your life.
"Achieving life is not the equivalent of avoiding death."- Ayn Rand
2007-09-25 04:26:41 · answer #2 · answered by andreyklp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
Its not too late lady! Its a positive sign that u r concern abt ur weight. Good ,keep it up! I went thru dieting and experimenting make-up and hair dos when i was in the college coz all the guys seem to go after my best fren. I didn't lose heart,i worked very hard to slim down and spent time reading articles to make up flawlessly. And when i had guys going after me after all this hard work..i felt it is always WISE to stay the way U R!! Coz looks and styles are juz illusion.It juz attracts unwanted attractions!
Juz be urself and go for the guy who accepts u for who u r!
Best wishes for u to meet ur Mr right soon!!
Juz don't give up!!
2007-09-25 03:49:04 · answer #3 · answered by *♥sugar♥* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does sound like you're a nice person, but you don't believe it. Without confidence in yourself no amount of success will make you happy. My best suggestion is to seek professional counseling to help you see that your physical appearance or what degree you have is mostly irrelevant to your worth as a person. Also to help you be happy alone-it's essential to successfully being happy with someone else!
2007-09-25 03:47:13 · answer #4 · answered by barbara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
heres my tip
stop dieting and forget that, losen up, enjoy life and then people will start to be your friends.
if your weight is a problem, then start excersing and just eat normal 3 meals a day, stop with snacks and stuff
2007-09-25 03:45:04 · answer #5 · answered by kantsas 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋