the thing is I can get myself in my car and drive... but my problem is once im driving I am freaking out inside me... i appear calm but i am really petrified.... i am scared of driving long distances... when I drive I cannot relax.... please help me....
2007-09-24 20:03:55 · 10 answers · asked by lovingyouforever 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe you just haven't driven enough to have the confidence you need to be out on the highway. If you are that nervous, you may be causing a hazard for yourself or others, and you might benefit from staying off the road until you feel more secure and sure of yourself.
Unless you have been traumatized by a prior experience, that is the only reason I can imagine you would be frightened so much. Good Luck
2007-09-24 20:16:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-06 00:08:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its great that u can Drive! " Congrats on that". Coz i have been trying really hard to get my driving license for the past one year.I guess u are doing juz fine..u have to divert ur mind from the thouts that are distracting u which adds on fearsome thouts.Try to concentrate on the road with some soft slow music or have a companion with u during long drives.
2007-09-24 20:15:51 · answer #3 · answered by *♥sugar♥* 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have a similar problem. I cant get myself to get in the car and drive, but once I start I relax. Don't be embarassed or let down, we all have fears and concerns.
2007-09-24 20:08:51 · answer #4 · answered by Dregop 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't beat yourself up about it. Not everyone is cut out to drive! I have a friend who is the most amazingly together woman and she just falls apart behind the wheel. She gave up trying eventually as it was just too stressful.
2007-09-24 20:12:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sal*UK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah you really need to see a professional, but you're just probably having negative thoughts about getting in a car accident... if not consciously, subconsciously.
2007-09-24 20:08:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it.
I was the same way you'll get over it. and as for why, I know I was scared because my brother drives way to fast and scared the *********** out of me!!!
2007-09-24 20:14:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. I don't know what your problem could be, Maybe look to a psychiatrist
2007-09-24 20:07:00 · answer #8 · answered by nunya b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not trusting yourself!! Its like riding a bicycle. Just tell yourself you'll be fine!! Maybe you have hidden trauma about accidents?? I donno.. You need to work that out cause everyone needs to get around!!
2007-09-24 20:14:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... actually, I'm in the same boat... =-(
2007-09-24 20:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋