Do you think it's right for a man to masterbate after he gets you finish? And also only been married for about a month. What would you do if he kept doing that?
2007-09-24 18:18:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
not infront of me. that would be an insult duh!...why he can't come on me? ( it will give me the feeling that iam not good enough)
2007-09-24 20:48:30 · answer #1 · answered by jables 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you meaning he masturbates while you watch after he's made sure you have been pleasured? Then nothing wrong with that in fact it's a turn on for 93% of wive's.
If your meaning he gets you off and he cant finish while being with you and so he goes out to the computer and turns web cams on of show ponies then yes it's wrong and I wouldnt put up with it period.I would ask myself what I could do to help him finish the job inside of me or close to me so he isnt inclined to need stimulation elsewhere.
I am so tired of hearing men are visual creatures if they were then their wive's in lingerie should be enough visual .Stop giving them excuses that are false.And quit believing their garbage excuses , they only say it because they cant even explain why they do it havent you girl's woken up to that yet lmao.
2007-09-25 01:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by JadeyOz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well give him time. He is probably still locked in the mindset of pulling out and finishing that way from when you were dating or something. Could still be his way of thinking of not getting you pregnant if you aren't using condoms. I say just talk to him about why he does and then you will know. But can't be assumptious about it. As you said its just the first month.
2007-09-25 01:54:50 · answer #3 · answered by Cursed_Romantic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, OK or not OK is not the question. It depends upon how both partners feel about it. Does the husband ever climax during sex with the wife? If the answer is no, then there may be a problem. He is missing out by "taking care of himself," with his wife right there.
2007-09-25 01:22:45 · answer #4 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's a good thing because it shows how turned on he is by you. I would try to involve yourself and start to kiss him or rub your body against his. It will make it better for him. He isn't trying to make you feel bad he just wants to finish too and quickly. He might get so turned on by you against him that he might want to make love to you. I hope this helps.
2007-09-25 05:33:42 · answer #5 · answered by sweetlady82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohhhhhhhhh multiple made me spit water out of my nose!
2 funny!
Do I think it's right?? Well, it's his penis.
Do I think its a little weird?? Yes!
Ask him what the deal is. Maybe he was single and whackin it for so long he can't get off any other way.
Wiggle your eyebrows and tell him you'd like to show him a thing or two..and...then show him a thing or two!
If he keeps doing it, slap his pee pee and tell him that he's a naughty boy....this might lead ....I don't know..somewhere.....
2007-09-25 01:51:02 · answer #6 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive been married for about six months and my husband does that some times. When i get finished before him he does it to please himself. He doesnt want to keep doing me if i am done cause he knows i wont really enjoy it and it makes him feel weird. Just tell him it bothers you and you wonder why he does that.
2007-09-25 01:25:08 · answer #7 · answered by BWife 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes it's right. masturbation is fine, if you're uncomfortable you should let him know. He keeps doing it because it feels good! Try it yourself someday, male or female, single or coupled, it remains a lovely way to spend a few minutes.
2007-09-25 01:48:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, because then it will be really hard for him to have an orgasm while having sex with you. His "part" will be desensitized. If he cuts back on the masturbation he'll be able to orgasm with you. You should ask him why he does that. Maybe he's afraid to get you pregnant?
2007-09-25 01:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by spiffymo 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be worse...he could NOT be getting u off, so as long as u are who cares what hes doing...ur getting urs hes getting his and everyones happy!
2007-09-25 01:53:31 · answer #10 · answered by NONAME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeppers it's right for a man to masturbate, just as it's right for a woman to masturbate.
2007-09-25 16:09:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋