my boyfriend of 7 months does not call me....he has a VERY busy schedule (2 jobs, Med School and some organizations hes a part of)..and we meet twice or thrice a week but he calls me like 1-2 times a week....it frsutrates me sometimes and last week i told him that i feel somethings mising...he was very concerned and talked to me about it ...but r men like that even when the relationships that long...btw he also talks about marriage so I dont know what to think??
2007-09-24 17:58:37 · 9 answers · asked by kera 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The boy is busy. Get over it or find a boy with no future that will spend all his time fawning over you.
2007-09-24 18:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you see him 2 - 3 times a week plus he calls you.what is the problem, what do you want him to do fill out a pink slip and check in and out, he has a very busy schedule can't you see that, if he was concerned then thats great but seriously cut him some slack. and he is only ur boyfriend of 7 months.... so loosen up other wise you will sound like some sort of possesive woman and no man likes that!
2007-09-24 18:05:26 · answer #2 · answered by littlemisssaigon 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All guys are different. My guy calls me like 2-3 times a day and we just made 8 months. but he doesnt have quite as much on his plate. Med students do have busy lifes..if he talks about marriage he must really be into you bc guys dont usually bring that up with just anyone...most of them are afraid of commitment so talking about marriage is a big thing. Hopefully now that you told him how you feel..he may take your feelings into consideration and make time to call more often! I hope everything works out great for you!!
2007-09-24 18:07:34 · answer #3 · answered by hunny_bun19 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What are you confused about. He is concerned about how you are feeling, he talks about marriage, he is in school getting a good education, he works 2 jobs. What the heck to do you want from him, blood? He's doing his best, back off and be more supportive!! What are you doing? Not enough evidently or you wouldn't be all wrapped up in needing him to validate your feelings. Get busy, get a job, go to school at night, keep yourself busy and productive so you, too, can have a fulfilling life without needing someone to listen to your whining!
2007-09-24 18:04:36 · answer #4 · answered by gma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a go-getter. I have a feeling he will always be a busy person if he's like this now. Are you busy too? If not, get that way! Try to work out a way for you both to schedule time together. Life gets busier after marriage and kids. If you cant work this out now, he might not be the guy for you. Good luck :)
2007-09-24 18:06:45 · answer #5 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen here "Girly Pie" you are becoming what is known as a "Dream Killer".
You think you are more important than his education, his future , his career.
You are selfish to the degree that you are willing to pressure him to dedicate less time to the pursuit of a successful future.
The best thing you could do is be on your way and stop trying to sabotage his education.
If you won't leave ,then shut the hell up and let the man do what he has to do for his future!
2007-09-24 18:09:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone who works @ McDonalds, you can get 1/2 price cheeseburgers and see each other all the time!!! What a happy life!!!!
Quit whining and grow up!!! You got a good man who wants to make something of his life!!!
2007-09-28 17:59:26 · answer #7 · answered by DJ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would rather have a husband being too busy at work for not calling me than a husband being busy in gambling , cheating, ..... and not calling me.
2007-09-24 19:35:17 · answer #8 · answered by lost-in-love 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you are willing to wait till he is ready to take your relationship to the next level it looks as if he is focused on his career and you are focused on him.Do you have much going for you,job wise...you should find other things to occupy your time when he is busy
2007-09-24 18:03:59 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋