Im trying to take a survey on multiple relationship problems. Married,Dating,Family,Or just single life. What problems have you experienced and have you solved them?
2007-09-24 16:34:25 · 24 answers · asked by seximami110206 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Communication, trust, and honesty are the huge blocks in relationships. Everyone wants to believe, especially in a married or dating relationship, that love will conquer all. It's not all you need though.
Communication is a huge burden for most couples. My husband and I have been married for 4 years, together for 7 and we still have issues here and there. You have to learn when you need to speak up and LISTEN to your spouse and when you're just being irrational (we just had our second child--I was quite hormonal!). Communication is about being open and honest AND listening to the other person. There is so no right or wrong in a relationship.
Trust is another huge hurdle. Do you trust yourself? Do you trust the other person? This can be in anything from telling your mom a secret to finding someone else attractive and wondering if you should act on that attraction. You NEED to be able to trust that other person, because without it you're going to be nothing more than friends.
Honesty is pretty much like trust.,
In dating and married relationshps, it's VITAL to live in the moment. The moment you meet him, don't think you'll marry him. Enjoy life and life in today, not in tomorrow. So many people I know have jumped the gun and decided to get married to avoid being lonely and to fall in love with the IDEAL of marriage, not the person.
2007-09-24 16:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by FaZizzle 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Money is actually called by therapists as the biggest issue in relationships. Cheating is second and a higher problem with men than with women by an almost double percentage rate. But, my personal opinion is that if you have trust, and mainly love, respect and communication all the above is not a problem. I have found that in many relationships I have been in....the background of the man has played a big part. If he came from a broken home or bad background he was the same way. The next relationship (if ever I had to be in one) would find me looking at the guys family background than anything else.
2007-09-24 16:46:19 · answer #2 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is always a big one. If there is no trust eventually it will break up the relationship or just suck all happiness out of it. Also being in a rut relationship but thinking this is as good as you'll ever do is a common problem. The biggest lesson I learned is if you have these issues, you should start over with someone else it can make you realize how truly happy you can be.
2016-03-18 23:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
peoples biggest relationship problems
2016-02-02 06:52:21 · answer #4 · answered by Courtney 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a somewhat newlywed our first year problems came from money and priorities, expectations that changed over time, and lowering credit scores. All of these we were aware of prior to marriage but i think the legality of it all and 'till death to us part' just maximized our issues. I had quit my job just before the i do's. Then family and close friends moved in (physically actually) and it made us argue more. Solution: After a year doing sales, now i am back teaching and the house is our home again. I am happier in my present job, but $ is still a stresser. We are hopeful and determined which is great.
2007-09-24 16:53:02 · answer #5 · answered by Mrs.A.T.L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think in general, the biggest problem in regards to relationships is disappointment caused by unrealistic expectations taught to us by hollywood, romance novels, porn, etc...... There's no perfect "soul mate" because there is no perfect person. Everyone has problems and so will your relationship at some point.
2007-09-24 16:39:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say the biggest relationship problems are Respect and Love, and keeping God at the top of the relationship.
2007-09-24 16:41:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think the most problem causing issue is money... in my situation, my honey is very penny pinching and I'm a spender, we both work but to make a better future for both of us, we do share our money so I will get mad when he goes and loses at the casino or he will get mad when I do alot of shopping, so that's our biggest issue.
2007-09-24 16:46:35 · answer #8 · answered by Optimistic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
TRUST , My biggest relationship problem was my husband keep cheating.
2007-09-24 16:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by marylin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not the biggest problem in marriages isn't the relationship it money and household finances.
2007-09-24 16:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by aswkingfish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋