I have been very happily married for 7 years and we currentlyhave 2 children. My wife has been going to nursing school and is almost finished. She has an excellent body but also has smaller breats. I am very fine with her boob size, but she wants bigger ones so she can feel more confident. She deserves them and I wouldn't be too upset if she had bigger breasts. My question is, what are the chances of relationship problems after the fact? I assume she will start getting more attention from guys and I am a little worried about how she might handle that. Has anyone regretted buying their wife or girlfriend new boobs? Thanks for your time.
2007-09-24 16:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by scarfaceaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well 7 years ago, trust should have come in the marriage. I think if your marriage is solid, and she's never once thought about breaking it off for a while, it's pretty safe. I had mine done a few weeks ago. I've been dating a guy for 4 years now and we plan to spend our lives together in the future. He wanted me to be happy, I wanted confidence and to feel more like a woman. I really don't have that much more confidence and I feel a bit more like a woman, but I thought this would make me "happy". Usually women are very self concious about thier breasts and I think it's really sweet you'd think of this. Theres just TONS (really) to consider when doing this. Like overs or unders?, silicone or saline?, high profile, midrange (aka moderate plus) or moderates?, how many ccs (I have 320cc implants over filled to 350cc. I was previously a small to mid B and that got me to a small D, however it's different for every woman.). I would suggest beginning with a consult. It'd be great if you could schedule a free one, but very few plastic surgeons offer this. They may range anywheres from $50 to $200. I would also like to tell you to go to several doctors and actually check into their creditenials (sp?). I know of a woman whose surgeon lied to her about his. She found out in that he wasn't as qualified as he said. Thank goodness she came out OK. But nothing could be done after the fact. She had no proof that he said that. Anyways take a lot of time to research this. I wish I had done more. Tell you wife to check out www.breastimplants411.com Theres a forum there and sorry but its women only and they will have you call in to verify you are a woman once you create a user ID and password. Theres a forum (the breast augmentation discussion forum) and thats where I learned the most about my implants-from other women who've gone through it. They can even suggest a reputable surgeon in your area that they may have used. Or tell you who def not to go to. Good luck!
2007-09-26 17:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by lauriecherie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you married for the who she was and her beauty. You love her and her body and would never want that to be touched. Tell her that looking like all the other made-up women out there isnt attractive in your eyes. Tell her she is the most beautiful thing in the world and wouldnt want an inch of her body to change b/c it's the original body that decided you wanted to be with forever. Also just remember to watch what you say to your wife. Women are very sensitive and we think we are supposed to be the cover girl or a star. Make her feel like she is your cover girl and star. Women are hard on themselves. Good luck!
2016-05-17 23:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to do what you think is best. You ought to try not to doubt each other like you are when you say'I assume she will start getting more attention from guys and I am a little worried about how she might handle that.' This doubting isn`t good for the marriage.
2007-09-24 16:31:53 · answer #3 · answered by el10jon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she has confidence issues, larger breasts are not the answer. why do u say she deserves them? how does a person deserve something like that? if she gets them, and starts to get attention from others....so what? U know what type of person she is. If she is a woman who values her vows then you should have nothing to worry about
2007-09-24 16:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by noewatugointhru 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's gonna get a lot more attention once she gets them If your ok with how she looks why would she want to alter her body. I smell a rat! She's gonna be fishing in deeper water my friend so you better be prepared! Tell her no and see what she say's. Is it for you or for her own gratification? It should be for you and if your fine with it then that's all that matters!
2007-09-24 16:31:07 · answer #5 · answered by johnnie b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your marriage is solid and she wants the boob job, go for it. She may get added attention, but she'll be coming home to you every night.
2007-09-24 18:11:39 · answer #6 · answered by Chris L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant answer your question with experience but I can tell you she will be the same person on the inside. I'd tell her you are happy how she is and take her on a romantic holiday instead.
2007-09-24 16:30:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is what she wants!! But if you want it done, then you're being selfish. If you love her, then you love "as is". I dought that she would change relationships, because of boob size.
2007-09-24 16:58:21 · answer #8 · answered by happywjc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her dream--there is no reason why she should have them. they cost money and you said that you didnt mind her current size. show her that she doesnt need bigger breasts to be loved.
2007-09-24 16:31:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋