My best friend and I have been friends since our senior year of high school which was about 4 years ago. Since then we have been through thick and thin, mainly his problems. Well I live 1000 miles away during the school year because of where my college is. This past summer my friend and I spent everyday together and had sooo much fun. Recently, upon coming to school I went through a rough time and really needed my best friend. He was just plain and simple not there for me. He said he is "really busy all the time" and has a lot of things on his mind. Now he has no idea why I am upset at him and refuses to communicate, telling me he has to go every time I bring it up. Is it time to just end the friendship and go on? I feel like he is just a fair weather friend. (PS he also has been in love with me but its never really been a problem before, and baffles me even more as to why he would treat me like this)
2007-09-24 16:16:13 · 10 answers · asked by Miss Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have communicated it very clearly...and calmly most recently so that is why I am here now, because legitimately I have tried and I do know what is on his mind most of the time and it doesnt change...hopefully that helps the question too
2007-09-24 16:32:57 · update #1
He is a coward who runs away from problems. Be glad that you found out now. Cut your losses and drop him. He doesn't know how to be a friend.
2007-09-24 16:20:13 · answer #1 · answered by notyou311 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-10-05 07:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
best friends do fall apart. im going through a similar situation. me and my friend have known eachother since the 6th grade. now were 23 and 24 and have nothing in common. she has a son and goes to school and all, but feels that she doesnt have to work and takes advantage of people now. she only wants to hang with me if im taking her out. im stuck paying for everything and she doesnt have a car, so i have to pick her up and drop her off. and if we go out to a bar or something, i have to pick her up and take her son to a sitter. i would pay for her drinks and for the sitter!! she finds people to buy her cloths, get her nails done, and her hair done, etc.. im suppose to be her best friend. i shouldnt have to buy a friendship!! this became so annoying that i hardly call her anymore. now she only stays friends with people and dates people who do these things for her. i work hard for my money and it came to a point that she wouldnt even thank me for the things i did. we would go shopping and she would put things in my cart for herself without asking!! i confronted her about all this and she says i have no reason to be mad and im jelous of her cause shes going to school. sometimes its best to leave things alone and find better friends..
2007-09-24 16:37:32 · answer #3 · answered by tish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Communicate why you were mad at him, maybe he doesn't know what he did do wrong. It could be a misunderstanding and he really could have been busy during that period of time.
2007-09-24 16:26:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he's a guy, you're not, and you're not puttin' out for him.
Guys and girls can't be best friends unless the guy is gay.
Wake up and smell the roses.
2007-09-24 16:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i suggest u find someone else seein ur so far apart when that happens frienships tend to fall apart
2007-09-24 16:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by The Midnight Captain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him whats wrong and why your upset. then ask if there is anything wrong with him. then discuss. if he ignores you again then loose him as a friend.
2007-09-24 16:36:12 · answer #7 · answered by emmy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's prolly afraid to dissappoint you... everyones different... and no one can possibly know whats going through his mind... ask him! and u'll find out.. wild assumptions will never get anyone anywhere..
2007-09-24 16:20:54 · answer #8 · answered by xXSxLxIxCxExRXx 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would find another friend
2007-09-24 16:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by ღOMGღ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go.
2007-09-24 16:27:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋