How can I make it so I live with my dad?

Question

I can't live with my mom anymore its horrible and I just need to know what I have to do to have it so I officially live with my dad thanks for the help I really appreciate it

its not partying and my dad has just as many rules as my mom but she has made my life hell we never have food in the house she starts yelling at me for the dumbest things i have to cook for me and my lil sis cuz she'll go to her bf's house or be at meetings she forgets everything she is sposed to do for me and my sis she wont let me have any say in my life what so ever she says its none of my business where i live im 15

Answer 1

You can live with your dad by being opened minded because I did the same and u have to adjust to some things that he does way different from your mom. Like of course I'm sure you saw this in the movies he's not going to make you clean up all you'll have to do is stay out of his way and he'll be happy.

Answer 2

The easiest way is to have your parents come to an agreement for you to live with Dad.

The SAFEST way, is to have your Dad petition the Court for a change in physical custody. The fact that you are 15 means that you are old enough to have some say in the Court's decision.

Remember the Court will do a custody evaluation and there decision will be based on what the Court believes is in your best interest.

Answer 3

OK, so your mom has to lay down some rules for you to live by because that's where you live. But when you go see your Dad, it's a visit, & it's all fun & games until you return home because your Dad isn't saddled with the responsibility of parenting you.

Your problem isn't your mom. Your problem is with you & authority. If you did manage to switch houses & go live with your Dad, the party with him would soon be over, because he wouldn't be your pal anymore, he'd be your parent.
Once you are permanently in his home, he's going to impose some rules on you, & you will be facing the same problem. The only change is it will be in a different house.

I know you probably don't appreciate this, but I am telling you the truth. If you believe it, then I will have helped you. If you don't believe me, then I guess I didn't help you after all.

Answer 4

If you are 13+ then you can talk to an attorney so that you can go to court and say you would like to live with ure dad...if u r younger than 13 then you need to sit down with ure mom and dad at the same time and explain the situation......maybe say that u wanna try living with ure dad for awhile........good luck hope i was of good assistance

Answer 5

Depending on what state you live in, at a certain age you can choose who you would rather live with. Most places it is 16.
I would ask you school or something like that.
You can even call the child protection agency in your state to find out.

Answer 6

First talk to your mom and to your dad about it; if they both agree it will be easier. Your dad will need to file court documents. If your mom disagrees with the change of custody, then it'll be much harder and he will probably have to find grounds to prove to the court why it should be changed.

If one party disagrees, they will both probably have to get attorneys.

Answer 7

Talk to lawyer or your dad about your situation if shes abusing you call Child Protective Services they will send you to your dad if hes your next closest reletave and sutable for parenthood

Answer 8

I have the same problems, my mom and sister say im meaner and act bad now that I live with my father. Just punch him in his face whenver he tries to talk or whenever he looks at you.

Answer 9

Ask your dad first then if he okay's it, tell your mom. They may need to change things legally but that's up to them to do.

Answer 10

Talk to your dad about it, ask if you can make the move, and if you need to speak to the lawyers.