2007-09-24 14:00:01 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just knew it from the first day.....my heart told me....and we have been together for 18 yrs
2007-09-24 14:51:40 · answer #1 · answered by thats me 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have been married 3 times and each time I was absolutely positive they were "the one". If I hadn't been sure, I wouldn't have married them. But that's life. Hindsight is 20/20. Try to find someone with whom you have a spiritual connection, a soul connection. Looks fade over time, and people change in alot of ways as they grow older, but the soul, the spiritualness (not to be confused with religiousness) has got to be there, that deep connection where you are spiritually on the same page.
2007-09-24 14:12:22 · answer #2 · answered by TwyztedChyck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Three days after we met we were inseparable. Three months later he proposed and I said No! I still wasn't sure. I had been in a really abusive relationship and didn't trust anyone. About two months later I had to have emergency surgery and every time I opened my eyes , he was there. When the nurses didn't come, he did. When I couldn't laugh because it hurt so bad He laughed for me and when I cried, he cried. When I asked him why he stayed there he said that he was afraid he'd never see me again. That's, when I knew. September 10, was our 13th year. Since the day we met we've only spent two nights apart. One was our wedding night and the other was when I was 9 months pregnant with my daughter and his brother had a heart attack. I don't know how you know but you know.
2007-09-24 15:01:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Like the others said, "you just know." This person fulfills you, you fulfill them. You can't imagine life without this person. You can see yourself having grandchildren with this person. And that picture is something you both see. My wife proposed to me after 5 weeks of dating. We were married the next day. We just passed 41 yrs together. We "just knew."
2007-09-24 14:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by old beatnik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds so lame (and annoying) but i just knew. i was 36 and had been engaged before, had also lived with someone for 7 years, and it had never felt like this. i just knew that this was not a relationship to be taken lightly, that this was someone i could trust, who would always step up to the plate when needed. he's the only person ive ever been able to imagine growing old with
2007-09-24 14:43:27 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't tell you in words. There was just some feeling. I proposed to my now-wife after 9 months of dating (and never living within 100 miles of each other). We just both knew.
2007-09-24 14:27:34 · answer #6 · answered by derek1079 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly i dont know... you just do. its like you know you are ment to be next to this person and no ones else. when you are with them everything seems better and its like that every single day. when you have a fight, a really bad one and say really hurtful things and you still know for a fact that you would not be better off alone or with someone else. i guess thats how you know he is "the one" and i found him :)
2007-09-24 14:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anna 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
i just knew. my husband was the one for me and my soulmate. i believe you are destined for one person and that you fall in love with them without choice. you can choose what to do about that love though and it's too hard to walk away from. when you are in love you just know
2007-09-24 14:15:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i did not know. I don't believe in the "one" I think that is foolish...what I know is that marriage can become that "one" thing you hope for with time and work and love.
2007-09-24 14:04:48 · answer #9 · answered by just duky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, it was when I longed to be with her when we were apart, and I couldn't stop thinking about her. That's how I knew she was the one.
2007-09-24 14:49:27 · answer #10 · answered by Bryan M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋