Is this slutty?

Question

I go out every weekend with my friends...and I basicly have atleast 1 hookup every weekend...but I never go as far as sex with them...I make out with them and do other stuff but never as far as sex! Is is still bad eventhough I don't have sex with all of them?

18...well maybe not every single weekend but I usually go out every weekend...if theres a hot guy and he want to hook up i'll probably do it! is that bad?

We are safe...I usually don't go much farther than making out...but sometimes I make out for a few hours...My friends always yell at me...but I like it!

ewww i would NEVER EVER have oral sex...i usually only make out...and i would never have sex with more than one person...thats just really disgusting and i'm not that slutty...but i do like making out...is that bad?

Answer 1

If you're having to come in here and ask if your behavior is slutty, then you already know the answer.

Answer 2

One hookup per weekend? That is a lot, regardless of age. What is so special about these guys that makes you give in to them? And you said you don't have sex with "all of them". How many of them do you have sex with? Of the guys that you are having sex with, would any of them step up and help you if you happened to get pregnant? Are any of them someone that you could see having in your life for the entire life of your child, because that's what would happen if you got pregnant. Sex is not all fun and games- there is a more complicated, less fun, side to it (pregnancy, STD's, etc). You are a special person and you shouldn't let "just anyone" touch your body. That's something a man should have to earn.

Answer 3

Unfortunately, I would have to say yes. This is a rather slutty move. Especially if you are macking in public. Then people assume you are doing the nasty in private.

Slutty is the perception people have of you.

Make sure you are safe. There is more than one way to get an STD!

Answer 4

Sluitty is a term invented by the kind of scum who burned alive people for kicks and healing the sick ie witches and is involved in horrendous child abuse in kids homes.

YOU ARE NOT BAD YOU ARE A PERFECTLY NORMAL HUMAN GIRL IN TEENAGE. YOU ARE FORFILLING EMOTIONAL NEEDS.


ORAL SEX ETC IS JUST PART OF MAKING LOVE... LIKEWIOSE GUYS LICKING YOU

WHEN YOU FIND SOMONE SPECAIL YOU WILL WANT HIM AND OTHERS WILL BE BORING TILL THEN ENJOY.

JUST DONT PLAY WITH OTHERS FEELINGS IF THEY REALLY LIKE YOU

IMMORALITY IS BULLYING, BITCHINESS, CRACK DEALING ETC

Its normal for teenagers to kiss lots till they find somnone specail.

its also normal to experiment with things like oral, finger, breast sex and stuff before going all the way and very sensible.


However note these gerneral rules.

you only need the tinests amout of sperm to get close enough to the vagina to come into contact with wetness to get pregnant. YOU DONT HAVE TO HAVE SEX

Sperm is perfectly happy in air for ages.

Willies leak a few drops (each containing millions) of sperm as soon as hard and all while hard not just when the guy comes.

ie if one touches the willie then between your legs that can get you pregnant.

There is no such thing as pulling out or we only did it for a second or his willy just touched me down there. All can get you pregnant.

Likewise anal sex (not advaisable) can get you pregnant when you fart the sperm out its only an inch down.

even a risk in breast sex when you go in the shower and it washes down between legs.


So if you go further then kissing then best adised to go on the patch, nuva ring or depro injection as pills are too easy to mess up.

Noting several medines stop it working and herbal stuff like st johns wort.

use condoms and note if you put it on the wrong way then flip it over it now has precome on the outside and usless.

OH AND ANYTHING OIL BASED IE CHOCOLATE OR VASALINE MAKES CONDOMS USLESS IN SECONDS ACTING LIKE ACID.
Also

AND IF ANYTHING GOES WRONG AND YOU THINK THERE IS A-N-Y DANGER OF GETTING PREGNANT YOU DO N-O-T WASTE TIME ASKING SILLY QUESTIONS HERE OR WITH YOUR MATES OR THINK WE'LL BE OK...


YOU
GET
YOU
BUTT
TO
GET
A MORNING AFTER PILL i.e. plan b

95% goner work if taken within 24 hours (so don’t wait and ask questions here and on a Sunday or say Xmas day go to hospital) that’s 5% you going to get pregnant

25-48 hours (two days and nights)
Its only 85% efficient that’s 15 % chance you will get pregnant

After 2 days it’s only 58% effective (much like flipping a coin)

You may be able to get an IUD coil as well.

IN OTHER WORDS NO QUERSTIONS ON COULD I BE PREGNANT… GO AND GET THE DAMN PILL OR BETTER STILL HAVE SOME IN THE HOUSE JUST IN CASE… BUT IT’S FOR EMERGENCIES…

Proper contraception is better i.e. Depro injections AND condoms.

THAT NIGHT OF FOLLOWING MORNING EVEN IF BUNKING OFF SCHOOL OR WORK... TRUST ME BRING PROOF AND THEY WILL THINK YOU DID THE RIGHT THING.

EVERY HOUR COUNTS...
http://www.morningafterpill.org/map2.htm


ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_92.asp

VACUME ASPIRATION OR SURGICAL ABORTION
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_99.asp

TELLING PARENTS
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/articles/article_61.asp


have morning after pills just incase things go fuirther then planned.

HELPLINES FOR TEENAGERS TO ANSWER QUESTIONS

Ok this one is not from the best our sources. It’s actually from a site associates with hookers but this page is like a dictionary of terms associates with sex and what they mean which is useful. So copy the list and avoid the rest of the site if you want.

http://www.punterlink.co.uk/guide.htm
I.e. Russian = breast sex… get the idea?

What you have to look forward to
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=K45m79fEyz8

TEENAGE HEALTH FREAK
www.teenagehealthfreak.org
Questions from real teenagers, answered by experts, plus lots of other information.


SEXWISE
Tel: [phone]
www.ruthinking.co.uk
Free confidential advice and information on sex, relationships and contraception, for anyone under 18.

NHS DIRECT
Tel: [phone] (NHS 24 in Scotland: 0845 4242424)
Website: www.nhs.uk/England/NoAppointme...
WalkInCentres/Default.aspx
Locate your local walk-in clinic for advice on sexual health and emergency contraception.

www.childline.org.uk

FOR YOUNG PEOPLE
www.4yp.co.uk

FAMILY PLANNING ASSOCIATION
www.fpa.org.uk

ABORTION PILL
http://www.abortionclinic.org/topics/art...

http://www.prolifeismurder.com/...

www.brook.org.uk

http://www.mariestopes.org.uk/

Answer 5

You are at a time where you like to experiment and try new things. Although, I don't think that you should hook up with some random guy if it makes you feel uncomfortable and slutty later.

Answer 6

Wow that is sad. You sound really desperate to me. Be careful because you could end up with 5 kids by the time your 20 or with HIV or AIDS or some other disease if you keep hooking up.

Answer 7

If you have to come here to ask that question, then the answer is yes, could be construed as slutty, not to mention mono or any number of other diseases, remember that those hot guys might have had their mouths elsewhere.....not very sanitary.

Answer 8

Yeah

Answer 9

No...your not having sex. But you still need to be careful, and you may run into a guy you really like and he may reject you for being a "slut". Make 'em work for it sometimes.

Answer 10

if your not having sex you're not a s l u t and I hate when people think just cuz you hook up with someone like making out and stuff ((no sex)) that you're a s l u t. nope you're not, you're just having a fun time.