This guy and I are in love for over three years. However, we never have sex. I want to remain virgin until I am married. He have been respected my decision.
We separated last year. I moved to other states. He always told me how much he loves and wants to be with me.
I know he has been hooking up with a girl. Even though we are different race, but the girl looks like me. We both don't wear make up; have dark eyes and hair; thin (115-120), and short (5'3'').
He told me he does not love her. They are just good friend (They hooked up--Sex) On the other hand, He told me or wrote poems about loves, respect, want to be with me, and have never lost the feelings to me.
I just wonder why he choose to hook up with someone who look like me?
Thank you so much for your kindness.
2007-09-24 12:34:41 · 11 answers · asked by Hope 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
because he wanted you. men are attracted to certian types. you were his type. he loves you. why wouldnt he want someone who looks like you ? you sound like a sweet girl . a honest type of girl . you dont need a dishonorable boy. the ability to wait , refrain , is essenseal to understanding manogoney. she only looks like you. somehow i think she couldnt hold a candle to you .
2007-09-24 12:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by highriselather 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all have a certain type of look that we are attracted to. That's why the girl looks like you. Could it be possible that they really are only friends? If you're sure that it's sex with them, then he really didn't respect you, did he? Move on.
2007-09-24 19:40:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, alot of guys don't always care about looks (yes, that's true!) he could just like her personality. If he's not one of those guys, he's probably attracted to your kind of features..If they had sex, he's playing a game with you. HE WANTS YOU! he wants to start a little scene between you and him! Orrrrrr, he just really loves this girl and doesn't want to hurt you..Well, this is what i think!! hope i helped!!
2007-09-24 19:45:35 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Alyssa_Nikki♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's him trying to get your viginity, those men are sneaky lil' devil's. If he loves you and respects you soo much why would he sleep with someone else (regardless of what she look's like) and not wait for you. He wants a$$ and you are the one who hasn't given it up. Now your a challenge. Find someone who will LOVE and RESPECT you enough to wait for YOU!!
2007-09-24 19:55:13 · answer #4 · answered by Day Dreamin' in Cali'! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy has sexual needs. You should be kinda flattered if he goes out with another girl that looks like you. That means he find you attractive and he writes poetry for you but not the other girl then my best bet is he loves you not her.
2007-09-24 19:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Lv 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dont trust what he say to you anymore. If he love you, he cant hook with other girl.
Bcoz when they ve sex, he can feel like having with you.
Stay away from him.
2007-09-24 19:52:24 · answer #6 · answered by tips983 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she is his fantasy of you, you have done right by your choices but you have left him so frustrated that he is trying to replace or imagine, as that is the better word, being with you, so he picked someone like you and in his mind CAN imagine its you, the dude LOVES you to no end and wants you so bad he is going crazy NOT to have you, marry him and be his ONE AND ONLY, please!!!!
as love like that is hard to find!!!!! good luck!
2007-09-24 19:42:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably does love you but he's young and stupid. Guys always mess everything up! God bless!
2007-09-24 19:47:42 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a P-L-A-Y-E- R! Tells each booty what they want to hear. He just can't get you off his mind cause you are the only one to say NO and stick to it.
2007-09-24 19:40:16 · answer #9 · answered by hnfs73 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does love you.
2007-09-24 19:47:30 · answer #10 · answered by robink71668 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋