If someone talks to you about cheating should you let their spouse know?
2007-09-24 11:36:05 · 15 answers · asked by Pebbs 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Probably not. I would however read the guilty party the riot act and threaten to tell so they would come clean themselves.
2007-09-24 11:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by Rick R , Super Duper Samurai 侍 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have learned that by butting in sometimes you are the one who ends up getting burned. It is a chance worth taking depending on how long you are willing to go with your friend angry at you (that is if they believe the LIE their spouse says to them) And they only believe it when they are ready to. And that can take a long long time. Have GOOD HARD EVIDENCE before you do it.. so there is NO ROOM for the spouse to say you are a LIAR!
2007-09-24 18:44:32 · answer #2 · answered by dazednconfused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe not tell the spouse yourself but urge them to confess what they have done. Cheating is wrong and they need to know what the price of doing that is.
2007-09-24 19:08:43 · answer #3 · answered by monkey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you in a position where someone would feel like it was okay to talk to you like this?
NEVER get involved - you'll wind up the bad guy
2007-09-24 18:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No; that would put you in the middle of a potential mess - and they could both gang up on you. That's not a good situation.
2007-09-24 20:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Paul A 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO don't spill the beans its not your place, but you should encourage them to remain faithful, and if your asked directly answer truthfully
Meg
2007-09-24 18:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mind your own business!! And tell them you would prefer not to know because it makes you feel guilty for not telling!! But, it is definitely not your place to be the bearer of such horrible news!
2007-09-24 18:39:59 · answer #7 · answered by tangerine 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Nope. In the end who are they going to believe.
2007-09-24 18:42:05 · answer #8 · answered by chris b 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
certainly the fact that they are talking about it means there is a probabability of it happening
2007-09-24 18:42:59 · answer #9 · answered by Media Man 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no u need to stay out of it, the truth will come out eventually without u spilling the beans.
2007-09-24 18:41:56 · answer #10 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋