EVERY single relationship/friendship i make, i seem to somehow ruin by just being myself. i don't know what to do. i'm also in a wierd situation and all of my hair fell and i'm young so i always have to wear a hat or scarf even in hot weather and people look at me as if i'm wierd. i'm lonely and becoming severly depressed over it.
2007-09-24 10:47:34 · 5 answers · asked by foody p 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe you're falling into relationships too quickly because of your loneliness, and then trying so hard that you push the other person away. I would try two things:
Join three new groups or clubs;
Commit to having nothing but friendship relationships for at least six months.
If you just relax and get active, things will happen.
Good luck!
2007-09-24 10:51:14 · answer #1 · answered by Terri J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am guessing that you are hiding your true self early in relationship and thus attracting people falsely. Then when you relax and let the real you out everything changes. I would suggest you analyze what is important to you and understand who you really are. Don't try to change the core of your personality.
To find true friends you need to look in new places. Try volunteering. You could really be an inspiration to people undergoing cancer treatment and losing their hair.
Join a club or take a class in something that you really want to do. Learn to do a few things really well. This will give you pride and a sense of belonging.
When you are happy with yourself, you will attract positive and accepting people. Good Luck.
2007-09-24 18:07:03 · answer #2 · answered by ruby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be a poor choice in your friends you've chosen. Most people have no more than 2 friends anyway. Yes, yes, thousands of acquaintances and people who you say 'hi' to when out, but friends aren't that common,
Relax.
2007-09-24 17:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by twowords 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your mind focused on who you are, who you want to be. Dont ever change from what God created you to be. And if my vote counts. I will be your friend
2007-09-24 17:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by Mz.Swag 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
figure out what you are doing to youre friends to make them ditch you and work on that problem
2007-09-24 17:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋