i'v met this girl through a dating site, we've talked for a couple weeks now... she want me to go visit her ( she lives in the u.k and i in france ) i would like her to visit me, how do i convince her? and is it appropriate? i'm a nice guy, but doesn't want to get played by another women, have been in the past. i don't want to go overthere just to know that things can't possibly work out, or she just doesn't like me that much to sart anything. SHOULD i take her not wanting to come here as a sign that she isn't really that into me? and how do i convince her to come here????
2007-09-24 10:23:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
How about you guys meet somewhere in the middle that way you are on neutral ground. I give you credit for being cautious i can certianly understand that. Maybe just flat out ask her what her intentions are. Make it clear that you are looking for a serious relationship. You are not wanting to play games and chase someone around if they are not serious. If she says she understands that then i would suggest meeting in the middle somewhere. Getting seperate rooms just in case and see where it goes from there.
2007-09-24 10:33:49 · answer #1 · answered by musicgrl42002 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to her for a few more months, and then maybe talk about meeting sometime after the holidays. A couple of weeks of talking doesn't really make you know her that well. Maybe by the end of the holidays, she'll be totally in love with you and be happy to come to France.
2007-09-24 17:33:03 · answer #2 · answered by TheGuru 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHOULD i take her not wanting to come here as a sign that she isn't really that into me?
SHOULD she?
2007-09-24 17:32:24 · answer #3 · answered by ed 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋