how can you come to terms with it if you feel you are ugly?

Answer 1

You need to work on boosting your self esteem. Some days I feel ugly and try on 20 outfits becuase nothing looks right, and some days I FEEL like I look like a supermodel, and people do comment me on it.

Answer 2

I think an awful lot of it isn't what you actually look like, but how you feel generally inside. For example, I used to hide away from the world because I felt like everyone was whispering behind my back things like "cor, how does he even leave the house looking like that" and such.

Talking to other people however, I discovered that most people actually don't care what you look like and many times never even thought about your looks - it's your personality, character and how you interact with them they want to see as that's the bit whcih makes you unique.

While I was trying to convince myself that I wasn't butt ugly, I also asked people what they thought of themselves and found that noone I talked to actually really liked what they saw in the mirror. However the people who'd realised that everyone isn't judging you behind your back are the ones who walk with confidence and they're the ones that people think - hmm, she's cute or he's good looking.

In essence you'll judge yourself 10x harder than everyone else so if you want to know, just ask people and you might be surprised by the answers...

Answer 3

Have you ever heard anyone say " i look horrid". And it is so annoying because they look amazing. A lot people percieve them self as 'ugly' when infact they are not.it depends how you see yourself. I think you need to try and boost your self confidence and stop focusing on what you do not like about yourself otherwise you will just feel worse.

Answer 4

Get to the bottom of why aside from not liking your appearance.

Answer 5

stop focusing on the negative and instead focus on what you have to offer.

Answer 6

once you find out let me know!