I just want to be held, carressed. (without the pressure for sex, I would be more likely to want sex....why don't guys understand that?)
2007-09-24 06:53:56 · 5 answers · asked by HazelEyes 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Honestly, most guys just aren't into cuddling. And when they do it just makes them want to have sex. Most men don't realize the value of just being close without sex. They really are two different things. The truth is, most of us are just hounds and really don't get it. I learned that lesson but I'm sure most haven't.
2007-09-24 07:03:32 · answer #1 · answered by jwsou812 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Why should they? I'm sure sometimes they just want to have sex, but do you just oblige them? Give them what they want, you might get what you want. But sex is vitally important to a man, and cuddling is what happens afterwards. The whole "if you don't ask for it so much I'd give it to you more" thing is a complete crock. Everytime a guy tries it, he ends up getting LESS sex, because a woman assumes that if he isn't complaining about it, he's happy. It sounds like you have some serious control issues.
2007-09-24 14:11:10 · answer #2 · answered by terry m 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like maybe you are picking the wrong men?
My husband is ALL about cuddling. I used to have such problems sleeping, but he actually helps me go to sleep. He holds me every night and he'll rub me until I fall asleep. Just his little way of showing that he loves me.
Just talking about it is making me miss him, haha. Anyway, I assure you, there are men out there who do love to cuddle without pressuring for sex.....just gotta find one.
2007-09-24 14:45:08 · answer #3 · answered by jezyka 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Obviuosly you seem to choose males who have no class or sense of romaticisim. I'm assuming you've had this problem with multiple partners as you so freely use the term 'you guys'.
Too bad. We aren't all looking to knock off a piece just because we hold you. Well...not 'you' per se but you get the drift. Nope...you're doomed to be stuck because this appears to be your choice in men. The ones you want are out there...just like me. You just have to come find us because we won't be coming to you.
2007-09-24 14:05:42 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Why is it such a 'chore' for women to have sex with their husbands? Why don't women like sex after they are married? Why do women want to keep on dating twenty years after marriage? Why do women crave attention and drama so much they will cheat on their husbands? Sorry....but you gals are just messed up...
2007-09-24 14:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋