2007-09-24 06:38:24 · 29 answers · asked by Carm Soprano 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In a special folder that is, not like a background on the desktop.
2007-09-24 06:39:09 · update #1
I'm sorry, what do you think of your partner having pictures of their ex or exes on their computer......
2007-09-24 06:39:40 · update #2
Not really, no. If such pics were taken I see no reason to discard them as that is part of this person's history and as long as they were buried in a folder somewhere or burned onto a CD, then they are no different than having hard copies in a box in the closet.
I don't expect someone I'm dating to remove all traces of previous relationships from their life...nor should they expect that of me. Part of who we are today, is due to those people in our past.
2007-09-24 06:46:08 · answer #1 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 5⤋
It should not be a big deal if they do not have another girlfriend or wife but it could be if there was someone else that was in their life's. I do know that I would not be too happy if I were seeing someone and they had nude pictures of another person.The pictures should not even be on the computer in the first place.
2007-09-24 13:58:12 · answer #2 · answered by Nancy M 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What kind of a stooge would pose nude for pictures? married or otherwise?
Actually...never mind. just looking at how many there are on the internet would be a deterrant for anyone to shout 'put away that camera'.
But...on the whole people are stupid. If they had brains and excercised common sense then Yahoo wouldn't have an Answers section.
2007-09-24 13:47:57 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Of course it's a big deal.
It's totally disrespectful to you and you shouldn't accept that.
If he chose to have another girlfriend, it means that he is over his previous relationship and can give 100% of himself to his current one. Otherwise, there's no point in being in a new relationship; Otherwise, he will resent you and your effort to make that relationship work will only be one sided and you'll get nowhere, but will be heartbroken and miserable.
So, if he does care about you and does want to have some kind of future with you, then those pictures have to go.
Good luck!
2007-09-24 14:01:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kc 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would say hell no and I mean hell no!! This is vey rude and disrespectfull to you in the relationship with him now! This is one big red flag telling you something about his character and I would not like it at all!!! He needs to get rid of them if you mean anything to him at all......I am sorry but to me that would be just to sick to keep nasty naked pictures of your ex girlfriends to look back on and think god knows what. It would be hard enough for me to know that he has pictures of them fully dressed......but quite another if he had them and kept them stark naked. I would say this is is screwed up and i would ask him why he keeps them......if he has a problem getting rid of them I would get rid of him.
2007-09-24 14:09:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd right-click the file (on the mouse) and select "hidden" and click apply ... then go make a folder called "The X's" and right click that folder and right click on it and select "hidden" and then go to "View > Folder Options" go to the "view" tab and the go down and select "do not show hidden files" !
and she would never know they was there !
lol
2007-09-24 13:47:36 · answer #6 · answered by Ryan L 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be pretty pissed if my husband had naked pictures of an ex on his computer. Porn is one thing. They are mostly unattainable women, but an ex is a real person and I wouldn't be too happy about it. It would make me feel like I was second best.
2007-09-24 13:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by ♦justme♦ 6 · 3⤊ 2⤋
It would only worry me if he was looking at them all the time. Having them tucked away somewhere is not a "crime", and frankly if he had them I would never even had known. So - not a big deal.
2007-09-24 13:55:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be a sign that he is not completely over her yet. He should have dumped that folder when they broke up or shortly after that . I would ask him about those pictures. If he gets all defensive over it, let him know it's either those pics or you. You dont have to put up with that.
2007-09-24 13:44:03 · answer #9 · answered by lpogue2005 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
You are so fuc#ed! Yes it is a big deal. One day, he might feel like a hero and upload it to a site. My advice, go over his house, confront him, ask him to do a search for all video and picture. Make him delete it, and then empty the recycling bin. If you warn him ahead of time he may hide it or burn it to a disc. That's what I did. Be careful, we are sneaking little devils who love to grunt like guerrillas over our sexual conquests.
2007-09-24 13:46:38 · answer #10 · answered by Personal Insult 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋