2007-09-24 06:37:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
Life teaches you a lot of lessons, some are harder to accept than others. The amount of "scarring" depends on "you" .. Remember you don't get scars without healing. Scars are better than open wounds.
2007-09-24 07:10:45 · answer #1 · answered by PROBLEM 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1 have you reported any of the abuses? My guess would be NO which is not good, cause you have no proof, but if you have then you should file a restraining order on him and make sure he can't hurt you. #2 Do you have any children together? If you answer YES then that is who you need to think about, if children grow up seeing their mommy getting hit then the tend to sway towards that lifestyle as an adult. I'm in criminal justice. It is called the trait theory. #3 Do you still love the guy? If that answer is yes then leave and insist that he see a counselor and don't come back untill he and you have had an appointment together and you feel safe to return home. There are plenty of shelters and homes for abused women, I know first hand. And they really aren't that bad. #4 LOVE yourself enough above all else and know that you do not deserve this treatment. I used to think it wa my fault till one day I woke up and I was getting choked because the truck payment came out of the bank and he thought I took the money. After that I did and I left. #5You are not alone in this you have to take up for yourself and by that I mean get away from this guy, he will hit you again, they don't just stop. You may have to be sneaky, but start saving money and get you a place to stay with security. #6 Stay strong and you will prevail, please don't ever think that you have nothing to live for because you have a purpose, one that you most likely have not ful-filled make sure you know you are important.
2016-05-17 10:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not for me, but it will if you believe that it's really a horrible experience. Personally, I try to find the beauty in each moment. Gratitude and appreciation for the privileges we enjoy each day will enable you to see a life so beautiful, some people in some parts of the world cannot even comprehend it. Such as having running water, indoor plumbing, more than enough food to eat whenever we want it, secure and warm housing, a bed and mattress to sleep on with bedding. Not to mention the luxuries such as electricity, stoves and fridges, TV, cable, telephone, computers. The right to an education, advanced medical treatment and the opportunities for work in the field of our choice. We are SO blessed. How can this leave scars????
2007-09-24 06:48:47 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you let it... you have to build up a strong "shell" so people can't hurt you . ... in a way you have to get scarred to build up a defense
2007-09-24 06:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by s.o.s. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some people. YES. for others no
2007-09-24 06:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by laura seeks the Kwisatz Haderach 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Life scares and the world is an unfriendly place, but it all does not matter when we go on............
2007-09-24 06:41:53 · answer #6 · answered by Dr. Girishkumar TS 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That all depends on how hard you fight it.
Doug
2007-09-24 06:45:02 · answer #7 · answered by doug_donaghue 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋