told this guy that I am too busy to be emailing him anymore and that I am trying to work out my current relationship, and he says, "I wish you all the best then. and you never know when I will be back in your area again? why would he say that knowing I am with someone else?
2007-09-24 05:30:51 · 28 answers · asked by monalisa79 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It's called mind games.... and apparently it worked... cuz you are still thinking about it even now....
2007-09-24 05:34:55 · answer #1 · answered by chica42 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well it was nice of him to wish you the best. However, saying that you never know when he will be back in your area again seems to be saying that this might be your last chance with him. I wouldn't give it another thought. You are trying to work out a relationship you are in now and he should respect that. Concentrate on your relationship and do all you can to make things right. Best of luck!
2007-09-24 05:36:16 · answer #2 · answered by Bubbles 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok Maybe he sounds like a psycho on the other hand, Maybe he will try to win your love one more time even though you are with someone else. He may feel he is the better man for you than you current lover. If he is still sending messages like the one you described above print the emails and call your local police department with a full description of him and take the emails with you just in case he decides he is going to do you or your boyfriend or both bodily harm..
2007-09-24 05:36:33 · answer #3 · answered by whiteroses202004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though he is wishing you the best, and does he really mean it. He is also saying you will never know when he miight be back, another words he is trying to say keep talking to me. If he was any kind of real man he would back off, and let you do what you need to do. Good-Luck portiqueB
2007-09-24 05:40:35 · answer #4 · answered by portiqueb 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it. If you don't want to email him anymore, and work on your current relationship, then do that. Don't worry about what he meant when he said what he said. He was probably just trying to be polite.
If he calls you, don't answer the phone, if he emails you, don't respond. He'll get the message soon enough.
2007-09-24 05:35:22 · answer #5 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's leaving the door open for you in case your current relationship doesn't work out.
If you don't want that, just quit emailing him. Block his email on your side, if that makes you feel better.
2007-09-24 05:41:11 · answer #6 · answered by sfcgijill 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably said that based on your telling him that you are "trying" to work on your current relationship. He may be hoping that things don't work out and wanted you to know he would be there if you needed him.
2007-09-24 05:36:53 · answer #7 · answered by Virginia B (John 16:33) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably hopig you'll keep your options open. He's letting you know that if all "doesn't go well", then he's there....and will most likely be in your vicinity if he is needed. You did the right thing by telling him you need to work out your current relationship. That way your judgement won't be clouded.
2007-09-24 05:35:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to pressure you into choosing him. If you are seriously trying to work out your current relationship, then get your email buddy out of your mind.
2007-09-24 05:58:51 · answer #9 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I don't know, it could just mean that fate may have it that the two of you hook up again after you deal with your current situation. It sounds innocent enough to me, unless, of course, he's a stalker.
2007-09-24 05:34:46 · answer #10 · answered by VNCGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants you to know what a fabulous opportunity you are missing and that it may never come around again. He is saving face, don't worry about it.
2007-09-24 05:40:22 · answer #11 · answered by wondermom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋