Im sharing a house with a chinese male student, on leaving the bathroom i left in my dressing gown and slippers - as he passed me in the hall he looked at me as if I was naked or something and got into a tiz...maybe I should have got changed in the bathroom! (he is about 40)..is that really rude or something??
2007-09-24 05:17:56 · 8 answers · asked by cizzy81 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I don't suppose he thought it rude, its just that the back of your dressing gown was caught up in the belt and as you walked past him he could see your whole bare backside.
He was probably a little puzzled by this as he was unsure quite what this signified.
Then he remembered that there's an old Chinese proverb that says: "When Full Moon is seen unexpectedly, Chinese man may dream of Wang King"! As everybody knows, this is a place that Chinese men are apt to think about when they are feeling nostalgic for their homes.
2007-09-24 08:20:26 · answer #1 · answered by jacyinbg 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have done NOTHING wrong.
If he is such a prude that seeing someone in dressing gown and slippers causes him discomfort, he needs to take a long look at himself.
If you were covered then there is no problem.
Personally i'd tell him to get a life and if he didn't like the way the house (or people in the house), he should move out.
2007-09-24 12:24:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
It's rude of him, not you! You shouldn't have to feel like you can't walk out of the bathroom in your dressing gown just 'cos of him. He doesn't own the house & you weren't parading around in all your naked glory, so he had no reason to throw a tantrum. Just ignore him next time; he's being silly. X
2007-09-24 12:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont know much about chinese culture
but if you wanna walk about in a dressing gown and slippers then go ahead!! if he finds it offensive its his problem
2007-09-24 12:23:57 · answer #4 · answered by Secret Lemonade Drinker 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ask him, maybe you need a new roomate.
My son has had girlfriends from different Asian cultures and we even lived for one year with he and his Korean girlfriend and they are open just like anyone else.He had a Chisnese girlfriend and I have seen her in her bathrobe,he just sounds weird to me.
2007-09-24 12:24:10 · answer #5 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If it's your house then tell him to mind his own business or bugger off!!!!
2007-09-24 12:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by James Melton 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's a bloke what do you expect, it might be wise to put something on whilst around the guy, he might be getting the wrong impression.
2007-09-24 12:22:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
now your flerting with us as well you know it young lady?
Regards
Ryan Dior
2007-09-24 14:10:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋