i know i can be a good wife but my husband didnt see it that's why i want some advice and help from u?....
2007-09-24 05:01:08 · 14 answers · asked by mariannebenosa 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
No one can tell you how to be a good wife - it's very personal and something only you and your husby can decide. If he thinks you're not a good wife and you agree there's room for improvement, you might start by asking him what the issues are. On the other hand, if he's telling you you're not a good wife but refusing to be specific, you might consider counseling, courses or books in spousal communication, or whether you even want to be with a man who doesn't think you're the best thing since sliced bread and won't tell you why.
Good luck! (:
2007-09-24 05:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Hoosier Mom 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your question is too vague. What does your husband consider to be a good wife? You and your husband should probably go for some marriage counseling to make sure you both expect the same thing from your marriage. Are you pregnant? Is is preventing you from wanting to have sex or keeping the house clean or get dinner ready on time? I'm not really sure what kind of advise you want here.
2007-09-24 05:13:25 · answer #2 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say, fulfilling your husband's daily needs as well as the specific things he wants from you or anything else.
However, you can't just do everything your husband asks you to do just because you want to be a good wife for him. A wife should watch her husband's behaviour and attitudes too, making sure he doesn't go too far.
Above all, I would recommend asking your spouse the same question and see what he says.
Good luck!
2007-09-24 05:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A good wife is responsible, must know whats marriage compare to single life, especially the responsibility to her husband... of course being romantic leads to happy life but the main is you should know what are the responsiblity in the house thats a good wife.
2007-09-24 05:08:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...well you have to explain why you think u r not a good wife in the first place for us to give you advice. you may not be doing anything wrong and it's just your husband playing mind games with you.
Pls elaborate on why you think u r not a good wife.
2007-09-24 05:05:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just BE YOURSELF!
Changing who you are for someone else,will only make you unhappy because you'll have to put up a false front all the time.
If you and your husband don't get on,then maybe you're just not right for each other?
If you don't want to give up on the relationship,then maybe you should seek some marriage guidance or counseling,but other than that,you are who you are and you should be happy with yourself x
2007-09-24 05:12:07 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs_Golub 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask you might need to find a good husband one who deserves a good wife
2007-09-24 05:08:14 · answer #7 · answered by MYAB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clean the pad, be a good mother, cook and most important support you husband no matter what. Tell him the house is clean, the kids are great, dinner is on, I am with you 100%. The ball is in your court.
2007-09-24 05:05:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you a bad wife right now? I mean being a good wife is just being supportive, loving, loyal, understanding, trusting, etc, etc, etc... What part are you missing dear? What makes you a bad wife now?
2007-09-24 05:05:03 · answer #9 · answered by teri is ambience 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow!!
I think he needs to try harder to be a batter husband if he can tell you your not a good wife.
did he marry you to have you change?
2007-09-24 05:05:33 · answer #10 · answered by Kelly+Ian 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋