At least with the first one there is ignorance of what might have been.
2007-09-24 04:49:43 · 15 answers · asked by Vassal of Ages 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
A lot of people seem to understand this predicament. Thankyou and peace to all.
2007-09-24 05:43:58 · update #1
You can't go through life with regrets and "if only" or "what if". It will drive you crazy. Sometimes you just have to go for it and if it was meant to be, then it will be. If not, don't worry about it. Everything is a circle and sooner or later, things come back around.
2007-09-24 04:54:44 · answer #1 · answered by Just Life, Trying To Live It. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they could both be the same thing, either can be followed with "i had/nt done that" but as quick as you take a chance on something in life the opportunity is there for you to regret being so spontaneous and wanting to forget you ever did it, people will allways have regrets, major or minor things could have allways been done differently.
Unless your truly happy with the person you are the second before you die as your actions and experiences make you who you are, your going to have at least one of these running through your mind. I believe!!!
2007-10-02 07:03:30 · answer #2 · answered by bouncingdaisy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If Only..because with the other one at least you don't know what might have happened.
2007-10-02 11:41:32 · answer #3 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only is the worst because you would be thinking of how things could have been different if you had done something else.
2007-09-24 11:55:58 · answer #4 · answered by Me Myself & I 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both being very unacceptable scenarios these questions have caused me to ignore them both and just go out PEACEFULLY!
2007-09-30 18:00:58 · answer #5 · answered by wayne_burdeshaw 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only...just for the reason you stated
2007-09-24 12:06:03 · answer #6 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right: "if only" is useless, there is nothing you can do about it. And involves some regrets.
2007-10-02 00:25:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I work in long term care/hospice and have decided to do what I can to avoid this.
2007-09-24 12:02:49 · answer #8 · answered by Nurse Winchester 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"If only..."
Because that means you had the chance and didn't take up on the opportunities that were presented before you.
2007-09-24 12:01:58 · answer #9 · answered by Karma Eve 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF ONLY ...... i hate when i do that now i can only imagine what it would feel like not coming back.
2007-09-24 11:55:03 · answer #10 · answered by ACLJ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋