2007-09-24 04:01:48 · 31 answers · asked by matroosje 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I don't know, but it's bad practice, i'd drop a girl in a heartbeat if she starts playing those kinds of games....."B!tch you aren't worth my time"
2007-09-24 04:05:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
I honestly don't know. I think it's stupid and childish. If there's a problem between a couple they ought to be able to resolve it verbally and not with little hints and manipulations. Sex should not be used as a reward or punishment, it's not a disciplinary tool. It's supposed to be fun, and ideally an expression of love. I can understand how a girl would not be in the mood to have sex if she was mad at her boyfriend, but to outright declare that because she thinks he screwed up, he doesn't get to have sex anymore is just a pathetic attempt at controlling the situation. If this is your girlfriend, and she doesn't seem capable of evolving, I would encourage you to dump her, find someone who's a bit brighter. Life's too short for that kind of petty crap.
2007-09-24 04:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by Sager 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I totally agree with phlygirl!
Sex is in women's heads.
I don't withhold sex to teach someone a lesson. I just can't have good sex when I'm angry with someone. It just feels weird and wrong and I'm not into it at all.
I have this internal meter that I gauge my happiness with my husband, and if it falls under 40%, there's just no way I can have sex with him. And the happier I am, the better the sex is. Around 60%, it's pretty good. When I'm up to 85%, it's freekin' incredible.
Sex is in the head, I'm telling you.
2007-09-24 04:10:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
certainly, the stance you have taken is in basic terms as risky as what you're arguing against. we could nto overlook that the international become as quickly as ruled as a matriarchy and that fell for a reason. we at the instant are ruled with the aid of a patriarchy and which will lower back fall because of the fact of corruption and repression. yet another feminist flow will only harm the reason you're arguing for. Neither male nor female might properly be on top of problems with the different or dominant over the different - or we finally end up suited the place we at the instant are. Unfortuneatly - ranting like this only perpetuates the patriarchal heirarchy - in view which you're striving to attain the quite worth and status of a guy - somewhat of achnowledging your individual inherent quite worth and status as someone and female.
2016-11-06 06:15:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because it's the one area of a man's life that a woman knows he can't do without. Holding out on him can make him wonder WHY and thus, consider what he might've done to cause this. If his spouse seems upset, he wouldn't necessarily assume it has something to do with him, but if he isn't getting any - he's going to assume its his fault over someone else's.
Of course, not all women think like this.
2007-09-24 04:08:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because, it's the womans body and if a man disrepects a woman in any way she should not have to give her man any piece of her body especially after it has been insulted or hurt, etc.
The mind is the most sexual organ on a womens body btw.
2007-09-24 04:05:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because they think that's all a guy wants, and they are usually right. Sex has become a game in this world; a weapon, if you will, in some instances. It is neither. Neither is it the basis of a relationship, nor should it be used to manipulate, but it is and that's just the reality of this world.
2007-09-24 04:06:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because it works most of the time. If men didn't let it bother them, then women wouldn't keep using it as a tool/punishment...
2007-09-24 04:06:13 · answer #8 · answered by LatchKeyPrincess 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because some have been taught that, and it sometimes works...however there are more mature ways of dealing with issues. Of course if the 2 parties are quarreling, I wouldn't expect either to feel real amorous toward the other.
2007-09-24 04:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, does it work when they hold out? What do guys think of that? That's the only way we can get your attention and get you to listen for the meantime. Also, when we're upset, we don't want to have sex with you guys.
2007-09-24 04:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by Souki T 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
A woman withholding sex is not trying to teach anyone, anything. It just means that, at this time, she can't stand the sight, smell, or touch of that a$$hole, and she certainly doesn't want to have sex with him. You guys got it all wrong again, as usual.
2007-09-24 04:06:10 · answer #11 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋