you no that you want to get closer to her .......
she is afraid of being hurt ......
where is all of my wisdom why I so desperately need it?
2007-09-24 02:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
time..give it time
2007-09-24 03:21:01 · answer #1 · answered by FallenAngel© 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that will help you here is time and patience. If she is afraid of getting hurt, your best bet is to spend time with her as a friend, not a date or a boyfriend. Show her you're a nice guy.
To avoid falling into the friend trap, let her know that you're interested but you're willing to wait until she's ready and that you'd rather hang out with her as a friend than not hang out with her at all.
Time is your friend on this occassion.
2007-09-24 10:02:37 · answer #2 · answered by DMsView 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers delivery & a card. A formal dinner at a nice restaurant will also help. Be that perfect gentleman.
2007-09-24 10:02:59 · answer #3 · answered by mrsdebra1966 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would apologize and say when your ready call me and I can be there in a heart beat. Then buy her a dozen red roses and a box of chocolates to apologize.
2007-09-24 10:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel relieved i didn't blow it!
at least i tried..... everyone fails sometimes!
everyone is afraid of being hurt,i took the chance but she didn't want to give me or take a chance!
it's okay to seek other pples opinions... you will be surprised what ideas you will find out there!
2007-09-24 10:01:58 · answer #5 · answered by cherry Loves the Lord God 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
shower her with love, gain her trust by always being there for her, and proving to her that nothing else is more important.
Rebuilding trust is a hard thing to do, but it is possible ;)
2007-09-24 10:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a gentleman and give her space
2007-09-24 10:01:21 · answer #7 · answered by Mo 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
be a sweet romantic gentalman but don't rush her or force her
2007-09-24 10:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you take it slowly build up her trust in you show her your there for her
2007-09-24 10:01:49 · answer #9 · answered by Cody 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
take what you want
2007-09-24 10:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by David B 5 · 0⤊ 3⤋