I was with this "bad boy" guy around 3 years ago and I just cant stop thinking about although it was my decision to end the relationship because of him being the "bad boy" kind of guy. Now I am in a stable relation with another man that loves and respect me but still keep thinking about my ex boyfriend whom I left him by my self (forgive me for my English is not that good) as at those times I thought it was proper to do so because I didn't think he was the one for me, as he was rude, harsh and uneducated........... but for one thing I was sure he used to love me passionately and sincerely and he made great love to me......I am so sad please give me some advice......why can't I find peace?
Is this just an obsession or is this love? I feel like i have misunderstood him, like i have misjudged him, like .......i don’t know what........is just that his face is all over everything reminds me of him i keep thinking how would it be like if we didn’t split up. He is actually in a serious relationship with another girl and i feel like i have made a gift to this lady by giving her the man that was supposed to be mine..........
2007-09-24 01:28:39 · 5 answers · asked by taurus 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Did you ever communicate your feelings to this "badboy" during your relationship? Is he successful now or heading up the right path? If not then you stil made the right decsion about him. However, you have obviously made a poor decision about the man that you are oresently with, he is just not doing it for you. Say Good bye to him as well and go onto another.... two tries just ain't enough. ha.
2007-09-24 01:39:15 · answer #1 · answered by Kimberlee Ann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still feel love for this guy. So what. Really. I'm not trying to be mean, I'm speaking from my own past experiences. You will have strong feelings throughout life that aren't necessarily going to lead you in the right direction, and you need to dismiss these feelings and eventually they will dissipate. Feelings, no matter how strong, aren't necessarily of value. Keep busy making sure the guy you are with now is happy - you aren't the only person in this equation with value.
2007-09-24 08:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by lillybreeze 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-09-25 01:55:32 · answer #3 · answered by hb12 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, your heart is telling you that this was very important you (passion, romance, sex) but he wasnt the whole package.. Your new b/f is the other part of the package.. Leave your b/f trust me, you will eventually.. and look for a guy thats respectful, good 2 u, and awesome in bed.
2007-09-24 08:40:47 · answer #4 · answered by S&NFervor4Ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him. Bad boys aren't worth the brain cells.
2007-09-24 08:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Stephanie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋