start to think that maybe they're right when they keeping on telling you that you're useless and worthless and just a waste of time?
2007-09-21 20:56:16 · 9 answers · asked by NoLongerHere 7 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
no i do not! and neither are you!!!!!!!
2007-09-23 17:40:40 · answer #1 · answered by xeroxed 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a sign that enough is enough. Talk to a counselor at school.
I knew I had to leave my second husband when I realized I was starting to believe all the mean things he said to me.
No, they are not right. They are taking out their anger and unhappiness and frustration on you.
2007-09-22 04:02:24 · answer #2 · answered by zen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to hold on to the negative cr*p my mom dished out- always a backhanded complement like I love your hairstyle but what did you do to the color- or I love your jeans but you need to lose 10lbs to make them fit perfectly. She has a way of pounding you with her opinions and never quite approving of how you live your life.
It sucked as a kid because I wanted that approval desperately. Now I approve of me! I ignore the negative or tell her she needs to keep her opinions to herself.
DON'T BELIEVE THE B**LSH*T! You have to learn to believe in you and tune out the negative.
2007-09-22 09:02:43 · answer #3 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I used to believe it, and it made a lot of damage. But now, I don't. I am worthy. And so are you, so shut off those voices, and be the best you you can be buddy!
2007-09-22 18:05:01 · answer #4 · answered by Bunny Boiler 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did when I was growing up, I had zero self esteem!! It took a lot of years to undo a lot of that mental abuse, luckily my Dad has changed and doesn't do that kind of mental beatings anymore!!
2007-09-22 04:02:36 · answer #5 · answered by Ginny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NOPE! I know myself better than that. People who say those things unfortunately are bitter and pathetic people...when they say things like that most likely is a reflection of how the see THEMSELVES.
2007-09-22 04:05:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no one tells me that but i have a mild midgetpidgeon type parnoia so i kinda take it from subtle hints.
2007-09-22 04:00:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my parents haven't said anything hurtful to their children.
2007-09-22 04:00:22 · answer #8 · answered by Ariana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
they're not saying it, i'm just thinking it that way
2007-09-22 04:00:04 · answer #9 · answered by k i w i ♥182 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋