and you have been with him on and off for a year.. and he says he always want to work our relationship out but then.. he only comes around for tha sex and then... disappears for hella.. and now that he wants to be seperated i moght be pregnant.. wat is a gurl suppose to do... when u love him.. because you've been thrrew so much with this person???
2007-09-21 19:31:50 · 12 answers · asked by BlaqueShawty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Learn from it and MOVE ON! The guy is a player and you are letting yourself be played. Find another man who will treat you right before you actually ARE pregnant by that jerk!♥
2007-09-21 19:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Rhiannon 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i've got been pregnant two times, and that i merely decide to pipe in that hormones can rather make relationships rather stressful throughout being pregnant. My husband is a very large guy, yet the two one individuals argue so plenty greater while i'm pregnant, and he would not rather do plenty incorrect. each each now and then the two one individuals have stated issues that we did no longer advise interior the warmth of a hormonal argument. Now, it must be that he meant it. I merely decide to assert that many times issues can get rather tough throughout a being pregnant. in spite of if it is not any longer the 1st one he's been by way of, it is plenty to preserve. He has somewhat some fears (like how his different daughter will experience approximately all of this), and he needs somebody to communicate in self assurance to with those fears and emotions. the two me and my husband had irrational concepts some situations. being pregnant is frightening. Having a toddler may well be frightening. i in my opinion think of that now's no longer a stable time to do something drastic. comprehend that even the terrific and maximum useful marriages and the terrific of folk each each now and then have a very tough time throughout a being pregnant. Take a breath, take sometime at a time, and in step with threat out off making considerable existence judgements till a pair of months after the toddler is born. while they're born, each thing adjustments!
2016-10-09 15:29:46 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a user, He knows he can come over for sex and then be gone for a while. Do you need to be hit over the head to see that you have him all figured out in what you wrote about him? Read your own words. You make sure your not pregnant and then keep him away from you. I would bet if you are pregnant you would not see him for a while or ever. You are smarter than you think because you have him figured out . Now, follow what you know is right for you. You deserve better than him.
2007-09-21 19:47:56 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A very wise lady once told me,{actions speak louder than words} If u got all these things going on now , what do u think it will be like should u get married or have a baby.. Sweetie use your good sense ----don't allow yourself to be fooled ,this guy is not even a good boyfriend , do u really want him to be the father of your child--don't do that to a child , believe me it all changes once u got the baby,he wants to be in the streets ,u'll be taking care of a baby. you don't deserve someone like that and a child surely does not. cut your losses & move on. there ARE good fish to be caught, be patient ,you'll see & I bet you'll be glad u did!!!
2007-09-21 19:56:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are pregnant, then thats something you gotta deal with. First off, please ditch the guy FOREVER......let him know about the baby though, if he wants to help out, cool, if not, then so be it. If he starts treating you or the baby badly, get him out forever. Im sure you want to raise a strong healthy child....And one less bad influence will only make it easier.
P.S. Dont even consider abbortion please, that small egg is still a human life, and it shouldnt have to die b/c of what its parents done
If you are NOT pregnant, then leave the guy....you deserve someone who loves you for you, not your body.
2007-09-21 19:42:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a guy, but I've been with a girl whose actions are different from what she says to me.
I'm starting to think that the best course of action is to move on.
2007-09-21 19:40:39 · answer #6 · answered by perfectlybaked 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone that loves you back and start building new memories without the long lost..
Quit sleeping with him and if you have to just SLEEP
Send him packing
Don't contact him until it is time to collect on his deposit. Child support!
2007-09-21 19:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by noyoungun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LEAVE HIM!!! - And learn from it! Not to taunt you but you would be another one of those who would be saying later on in your life; "How could have I been so stupid?" Don't let your heart rule you girl - it is blind! Use your head too! Isn't it so obvious that he is just after sex with you?
2007-09-21 19:42:21 · answer #8 · answered by Richy T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either pregnant or your not,there is no so such thing as nearly pregnant,plus he sounds like a wanker.
2007-09-21 19:37:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i'm so sorry.. but i have to say.. LEAVE the guy... what's there to love with a guy like that?! it's worthless.. don be so naive. there're plenty of other guys out there. think of wat wud happen to yr child with a father like that???
2007-09-21 20:06:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋