ok, I just dont get it. theres this girl I work with, and I hear from alot of people that she hates me. She started after me, and I never really introduced myself to her, But I dont do that to many people, because turnover is so high. Well my other coworkers tell me that she talks about me and says Im a B*tch, and that I was mean to her. lol she doesnt even know me. I go out with a bunch of coworkers on thursday nights, and she didnt go a few weeks ago because I was going. and she actually did come out with us last night and I guess she told people before she went out that she might do it again if I'm not a b*tch to her. lol I have no idea what shes talking about. I just assume that shes jealous of something, and take it as a compliment. Just wonder why she would give someone she hates so much control over her social life like that, lol. Well, anyways... why is she like this and how can I deal with it?
2007-09-21 19:20:00 · 5 answers · asked by dpsgriffiths 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
It's true in my life, your life, and anyone else's. . .
Whenever we interact with someone, that person will remind us of a core 10-12 people we know well, both bad and good.
How we felt about that person we are reminded of has some impact on how we conduct ourselves around the person in (in this case, your co-worker) your question.
Does this co-worker remind you of anyone you know or knew?
It's not the end-all-be-all of how we're going to get along with someone through time, but don't be surprised if there was a little more friction from the outset in an area that you may have not considered.
2007-09-21 19:49:16 · answer #1 · answered by Does Heaven Have a Sportsbook? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like jealousy to me. Insecurity on her part.
Or, like someone else said, you haven't given us the whole story ;)
I realise many people may not agree with this, but if you honestly have no idea why she treats you badly then I'd suggest confronting her about this. If she's going to badmouth you, you have every right too know why. Does't sound like your relationship could get any worse so what have you got to lose!?
2007-09-21 19:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by Luke B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she likes you... some girls are kind of mean to the person they like, but not many people are mean to that person... If she does like you, she doesn't want to like you, and pushes herself away from you, hoping that she won't like you anymore, but we all know that never works...
Maybe she's mad because you didn't introduce yourself to her... Or maybe she's jealous because you have a lot of friends there and she doesn't?
2007-09-22 00:52:36 · answer #3 · answered by ets2521 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should introduce yourself to her and ask her out for some coffee or whatever.Maybe she likes you don't like her.
2007-09-21 19:59:08 · answer #4 · answered by Marilyn T 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's something else your not telling us!!
2007-09-21 19:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by uh... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋