Is it normal or common for a husband to think sex with his wife is gross or bothersome? Within the first month of marriage? Anyone else run into this problem? I want to know if anyone else got sold a lemon like I did.....
2007-09-21 19:14:08 · 12 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well I noticed it within a month and it continued on the whole time we where married. He never fessed up, but I think he's gay or A-sexual.
2007-09-21 19:26:19 · update #1
And yeah, I ran away, 1300 miles away.
2007-09-21 19:27:29 · update #2
When we where dating he was totally pushy about the sex. The day after we got married he was like, get away you perv nimpho! He didn't work long hours and would get insanly mad when I tried to broach the subject. When I realized that this was likely who he really is I bolted out of there like SeaBisciut at the Kentucky Derby!
2007-09-21 19:31:08 · update #3
No. As a matter of fact,my wife wouldn't have sex with me unless she wanted to get pregnant.
We haven't had sex for about 25 years,married for 33yrs.
I wasn't sold a lemon,I got the whole dead tree.
2007-09-21 19:23:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ralph T 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not that I know of; most men who are newly married can only thing about one thing - getting you into bed; it is still the honeymoon. Wow; you need to find out why he feels this way; is he working long hours and tired or is his libido just low? Try to get some answers; he may have a reason he is acting this way. I did enjoy the part about the lemon.
2007-09-21 19:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by pussycat 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wished u would of given ur ages..
Yes, i think u are correct.. sounds strongly that he is gay or a-sexual..
he was going to hid behind u.. about it.. but now he is not able to go threw w/ it...
I no u must be sad and confused.. the best thing u can do is go back home to friends or family..
no need in u going threw all this until he makes up his mind..
take care..
2007-09-21 20:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no that is not normal. Does he just not like sex? Maybe he is on the down low. That is the only thing that comes to mind in that kind of situation.
2007-09-21 19:27:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually, this happened to my sister. Turns out he was gay, but trying to hide his preference by getting married.
2007-09-21 19:19:19 · answer #5 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The first month of marriage might to too fast for sex. Settle it down a little and wait.
2007-09-21 19:19:24 · answer #6 · answered by Ophelia 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes, except reverse the genders and add 30 years. i got so tired of being turned down or her acting like she's doing me a favor that .....why bother asking anymore? pretty lonely.
2007-09-22 02:20:00 · answer #7 · answered by spokinword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks it's gross and you have good hygiene then I'm sorry but your hubby might be and probably is gay, get an annulment.
2007-09-21 19:20:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mark and Allie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Odd man, he must have satillite and avoiding the truth.
2007-09-22 09:33:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
RUN do not walk, AWAY! pick yourself up and move on.. this will not get better.
2007-09-21 19:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋