so i dont even know how to feel or think right now, but i need ur help..my first boyfriend and my first one to lose my virgnity dumped me for another grl :( i gave so much of my love to him., so much that i didn't even know i was capable of giving.i left for two months and he started cheating on me :( wat could it have been? it just makes me feel like not even love is enough
2007-09-21 19:00:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Many guys use the wrong head to do their thinking.... especially young guys and once they start having sex they think they are Hot Sh*t and they want to see how many trophies they can get.... it has very little to do with you and more to do with the fact that a lot of guys are immature dogs.
2007-09-21 19:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by DavidV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because you gave him all of you does not mean he was giving you the same in return. Take some time and think about everything you and him went through. If he cheated 2 months after you were gone my opinion he was already doing something incorrectly and needed an opportunity to cheat . Move on with your life and remember to Love yourself that special guy will come along and match the Love you have for you.
2007-09-21 19:09:09 · answer #2 · answered by CherrieMartini69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look no matter what happened or happens. You'll never be forgotten by him. You'll always be the virgin he had. And will always talk about it or brag about it. even though he took advantage of it. It's not very often a guy takes a girls virginity. Your right love isn't the only thing that will make a relationship survive. it survives on the experience of love which would be acceptance of anything about you and appreciation. Destiny holds someone for you don't fight with destiny. There will be many seasons in your life and embrace them but always get back up after a fall and know its okay to make mistakes they help you learn and make wiser decisions. May God bless you.
2007-09-21 19:17:41 · answer #3 · answered by mimidunn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is kinda hard for you right now but time will come you will overcome this feelings of being betrayed.Almost all guys are like that after you love him and give everything they will just gonna dump you.Just be strong enough to overcome this and God will make a way for him to realize that what he have done definitely wrong and He will punish him.Just be careful not to give so much love and trust.Enjoy your llife your still young and you will going to find someone somewhere maybe he is besides you right now.Sometimes we overlook but real love is just around the corner.Good luck............
2007-09-21 19:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by jem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some boys are like that only
They just need shells
But u shud think that he doesnt deserve u
And ofcourse u will get better one
I can understand it is very difficult to forget ur first love
But life is like that
Concentrate on other things like study,music,friends
That will help u
Take care Sweetie
GOD BLESS U
2007-09-21 19:08:31 · answer #5 · answered by beauty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is enough but u both have to feel the same love. Boys think with there d^cks so they cheat sometimes. Its ok, ul find someone who deserves u and who will always love u
2007-09-21 19:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope u know now that opening ur legs to another guy is not going to keep him around.
2007-09-21 19:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry
that is sad but don't worry think positive , you didn't amrry him so that's good, you mayb sad now but it will get better
don't give up on love ,being though all this pain will just make it so much better when you love and are happy again!
goodluck
2007-09-21 19:07:21 · answer #8 · answered by abby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was immature. He wanted to have sex, and once he had it, he was on to the next woman. It wasn't special to him like it was to you. Next time, wait for a long time to have sex: a guy who is worth it will wait.
2007-09-21 19:05:45 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 15:26:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋