I was at a dance with my bf and we were all dancing then he just started to rub his body on mine and i pushed him off. Then when we were walking down the hallway to go dancing again he started singing a song that said to go have sex. Then he looked at me pulled my arm and said lets go have sex. WHAT SHOULD I DO WITH HIM?!?! I told him no then he didnt talk to me for like 30 minutes but when i started to walk away from him he kept on following me around.
2007-09-21 18:58:38 · 10 answers · asked by Tiana A 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If he's getting angry with you after you turn down a sexual advancement, drop him like a bad habit. It just shows he does not respect you. A good man would respect your decision to abstain from sex until you are ready, drop the subject, and not get angry from your answer.
2007-09-21 19:05:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
DON'T DO IT! If he cares anything about you he can wait until you are ready. Do not give yourself away once its gone you can never get it back. If he breaks up with you because you will not do it then say so what. Ask him is he ready for the responsibility that comes with sex. More importantly are you ready for the responsibilities that come along with sex. Remember this mistakes happen. Babies arrive and your life changes. There is no need to rush he may not be that good anyway. Oh yeah make sure you are not playing with his emotions either. Watch how you dance you may be turning him on.
2007-09-22 02:15:50 · answer #2 · answered by CherrieMartini69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, are you having sex or not? If you're not having sex, then he's giving you a clear message that he wants to. If you are, then why are you so annoyed with him? Frankly, though, you both sound too immature to be in a relationship. I wouldn't advise that you give up your virginity if you're a virgin. Make him wait a long time for it, so it's really special.
2007-09-22 02:04:28 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you soooo shouldnt be pressured into having sex just cuz he wouldn't talk to you. Honestly it's up to you if your young like me and you do it you might have to live with guilt and that sucks than you end up with all that other crap they taught about in health that you should already know. but if you don't want to so it than don't Just cuz he wants to its not all about him and it sounds like your not ready yet.
2007-09-22 02:06:55 · answer #4 · answered by alexandriahawthorne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you said no it means no.unfortunatly thats what they have on there mind. i would tell him listen im not going to.if you dont like that whatever. or somehting to that effect. theres somebody better out there. :) if thats all he wants he needs to get a grip.
2007-09-22 02:05:14 · answer #5 · answered by baileyx_x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him firmly "no". tell him its not gonna happen. if he direspects you, then breakup with him. if he still follows you, then try to keep your distance and be with a group of friends with some of your guy friends. good luck!
2007-09-22 02:09:49 · answer #6 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first of all tell him to get a life and grow up!!! and you need to go and fine somebody that isn't so self centered
2007-09-22 10:06:16 · answer #7 · answered by melanie a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes weird br8ck up now before hes ya know ya but dont unlesss you want to ya know ya
2007-09-22 02:03:45 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm tell him to play wit it and get bite bite ha ha ha he just liked to gind on you and you know u liked it
2007-09-22 02:04:45 · answer #9 · answered by shay s 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
break up with him
2007-09-22 02:12:06 · answer #10 · answered by latry245 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋