I was walking to a high school football game when along the way a guy in the car asks me a question. no one's around either, i didn't hear anything he said because next thing I know he had his d*ck out.... and i just froze in my spot. I tried to get away as fast as possible and all the while i cried. I forgot what he looked like and his car since that image is stuck in my head, i never had fun at the game either. AND I AM UNDER 18!!! he looked in his 20s...
what should i do? how can i forget????
2007-09-21 18:56:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
this ISN'T a fantasy!!! this happened to me okay!!! and i'm trying to forget!!! but i can't...
2007-09-21 19:06:20 · update #1
When walking, walk briskly and keep in mind that you are not going to stop or even hesitate if someone stops or slows down. Buy a regulation whistle and keep it on your keychain or on your person. Sporting-goods stores have them. They are loud and shrill. Policemen & referees use them. They are not expensive. Don't be afraid to blow it! The last thing a criminal wants is noise & attention. You will forget in time. Just taking this one security precaution will help you feel better. If this was very recent, go to a police station and tell
them you want to sign a JOHN DOE affidavit because a stranger *exposed himself* to you. Then, if he gets caught doing it to someone else, That will be his second offense and he could be sent to federal prison. This, too. will make you feel more secure
I'll bet the police will be patroling more in that area, now that they know.
Lastly, comfort your self by thinking it could have been worse.
Be careful There are a lot of sickos out there.
2007-09-21 19:41:14 · answer #1 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you went threw that, that has happened to me. My sister too. I didn't know what to do then, but my advise now is it to tell the police what happened. Tell your parents, and inform the school. Warn people that there is a man doing this. You'll find that other kids will come forward as well. And everyone should stick close together. This is the reason adults have said never talk to strangers. Please make sure you don't go near a car or truck or anything like that. For any reason. I feel for kiddo, I know what it's like. Take Care.
2007-09-22 03:39:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually , you were very lucky because you got away .
Many young people do Not get away and just last week ,
A BF of a lady took her 6 yr old for sex , then hung her in the garage .
There are many aggressive , dysfunctional males around and young people should NEVER be out alone .
If you cannot get family or a friend to go with you ,
Do not go !
Until you get some martial arts training that would allow you to save yourself ,
You need to start being smart .
Most young people that end up raped or killed were just clueless about life .
God has given you a view of reality and you need to heed the information .
Now that you know what is out there ( and he is but 1 of very many) ,
Stop being clueless .
Be safe and try to get your friends to be safe also .
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2007-09-21 19:12:48 · answer #3 · answered by kate 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you had to go through that. Hun, you have to realize that some people in this world are mentally instable. Others take jokes to another level. Regardless of his intentions, you should stay strong and think about the positive times(memories) in your life. People will always try to stop you from self-happiness, but it's up to you to not let them have that much power over your mind. Think happy and positive things.
If you really cant seem to get over it, talk to an older authority that you can trust, if that doesnt help either, maybe you might want to seek some professional help.
2007-09-21 19:07:41 · answer #4 · answered by R. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just remember - he is the pathetic one. If you can find it in yourself to laugh and walk on, you will find it is not so frightening. He is an inadequate person, and your alarm is the thrill he is looking for. Your dramatic language is what he is looking for - traumatized, frozen, etc. What happened is upsetting, but not the end of the world.
2007-09-21 19:06:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you need to report it first. you said you are a minor. have you talked to your parent(s). if they have medical insurance you should be able to get some therapy.you won't be able to just forget it. you will have to address it deal with it and then move on. hang in there. much love
2007-09-21 19:10:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
tell youre mom you should have told the first adult you saw
2007-09-21 19:13:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u can't let yorself annoyed like this, the world is a hard place...grow up kiddie...don't go mad over such things
2007-09-21 19:09:34 · answer #8 · answered by EG 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is this your fantasy?WTF
2007-09-21 19:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by Louise H 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋