and he has thier son that is 3 he was so depred for month couldnt eat sleep or even go to work now hes getting back to living is it o k for him to date she has been gone for almost 5mos . and is on her 2nd man friend !
2007-09-21 18:40:01 · 8 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
HUH????? I don't understand anything you said.... your wife left and she is going with your son who is Actually his own uncle and now they have nothing to eat but a second man????
2007-09-21 19:00:10 · answer #1 · answered by DavidV 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He needs to take it slow. He may need more or less time than others. If he does start to date he shouldn't bring the women around his son unless the relationship gets serious because he wouldn't want his son to get attached to someone that isn't going to be sticking around long. His son has already had his mom leave.
2007-09-21 18:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by sara 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's okay for him to date. I would say that the usual waiting period is one month for every year of marriage. I agree that he should take it slow. Don't force him, it sounds like he was pretty depressed. Also, he can meet people and make friends through groups of people like him: he should check to see if there's a group near him called, "Parents Without Partners." Then he'll meet people whose children are the same age as his, and his son can make friends, too, and their events are fun.
2007-09-21 18:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is.. but he needs to file and make it final..
Protect the 3 yr old.. don't let him get too attached to anyone who is not going to be around..
good luck to ur son.. and g'son...
I am sure things will work out..
2007-09-21 18:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Blondie ♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she left than that was telling him she did not want him anymore, so it is fine for him to move on and start to rebuild his life.
2007-09-21 18:52:42 · answer #5 · answered by cmore 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's all up to him. He needs to seriously think about it and be fully aware of how he approcahes it emotionally, and to consider his child as well.
2007-09-21 18:51:32 · answer #6 · answered by kttphoenix 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would suggest getting divorced first.
2007-09-21 19:10:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why not? he's got needs too. but tell him to take it slow!!
2007-09-21 18:47:57 · answer #8 · answered by Shell Answer Man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋