i love my best friend and he never love me (he just say iam his friend ) ?what can i do ?
2007-09-21 18:11:03 · 21 answers · asked by aiyshakhan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i've been waiting for 2 years. I hope you have better luck!
2007-09-21 18:17:06 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Sarai♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear frnd, always remember this saying that teaches a lot, its from a movie called dil chahta hae, it goes like this, " The more u try to hold the sand in ur hand the more it will slip out from between ur fingers."
i hope the above says it all, just wait, dont push him too much, try to making him realise how much u care and not love... its difficult to understand the difference between love and care but that u have to figure out if u love him...
just go slow...
best of luck
2007-09-22 11:15:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
By reading your question I am sure that this is your way of thinking. Why do you want to enter one way traffice. All love starts with friendship at first. So it is better to discuss this with your friend and understand what is in his mind rather than assuming things & taking wrong decisions. Stop thinking and start working.
2007-09-24 04:21:24 · answer #3 · answered by Raj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crossroad here!!!!! push or relax? hhmmm i think you know about him much so he may really mean as what he said and he doesn't want to hurt you so u should not push it much further than just a friend!! best friend is a long life relationship unlike love.
the best way to slolve it is to look around-there are many boys there-to find other boy!!!
2007-09-22 04:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by khateya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was in your exact possion with a guy who was my best friend and i liked him alot but he didnt like me that way, only as a friend, what i had to do was after about 2 months i realized that he wasnt meant and that i needed to move on and find a new guy, my tip to u is to just stay freinds with him, trust me its better to be friends with the guy than to never talk to him ( that will probably happen if he doesnt like u cuz he will turn into a jerk cuz he will become full of himself....trust me) i really hope this helps!
p.s- stay friends with him, find a new guy to like who has the same qualities as him but that likes u back.
goodluck girl!
2007-09-22 01:18:35 · answer #5 · answered by justinnnnn7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey hi friendship is friendship ur friend is right he is just a friend a friend cant b ur bf try 2 understand him and dont leave tht good person becoz now u cant realise whats wrong by the time u realise it will b out of ur hands good luck
2007-09-22 15:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by nicky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi baby,
How can you say that he does not love. If he considers you to be his friend, he loves you. May be the love do not manifest in the form you expect it to. Love may manifest in many form. In India manifestations of love are expressed in terms of HUM DUM (sharing breath), HUM NIVALA (sharing food), HUM SAFAR (sharing travel), HUM PIYALA (sharing drink), HUM RAAZ (sharing secrets), HUM BISTER (sharing bed) etc. If he is doing any of these things, he loves you.
You remove the element of expectation from your system, and see the difference. He loves you, loves you. best luck.
2007-09-22 01:40:58 · answer #7 · answered by Panchal J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep on loving him, if ur love is true, one day he will love u. love has a tremendous power. it can do miracles. yes it does. so u have to continue. dont be dissapointed. wish u best of luck
2007-09-22 01:25:51 · answer #8 · answered by gulfam n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant make anyone like you. Dont act too clingy and he might come around because you dont show him as much attention as before.
2007-09-22 01:17:33 · answer #9 · answered by R. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its so nice to have a good friend. So just be friends. Thats more important.
2007-09-22 01:17:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋