Wife wants more.?

Question

I met my wife over 3 years ago and now married for 2 years. When I met her she mentioned her previous men were quite large but I never thought much of it. Though our marriage never had any intimacy and seemed she was never satsified. Last week she said her previous boy friend was at least 9.5" and I was shocked she told me as though she must be still wanting it. I thought I was ok with 7.5" but now I feel I am wasting my time with her. Would it be true once a woman experienced an endowed man she would always want to go back for it.

Answer 1

There is nothing wrong with your 7.5, trust me, I've seen men with a lot less. Girth is more important that length, in my opinion. If you feel she is never satisfied, maybe you should ask her what she likes, what she wants you to do, try some new techniques, or even use "toys".

Don't let the size of her previous boyfriend mess with your head. Good luck.

Answer 2

Oh gimme strength , NO , once you try something that size you dont care about something your size so little you carry on like her.

I dated a guy who had 10 "'s trust me 7'5 is great , my god they cant even use them in full like pushing it all the way in or moving the right way so OMG , yeah she need's a clue , she's not obsessed with his size and if she is hmmmm yeah I'll keep that comment to myself on the grounds I'd get myself banned lmao sorry no disrespect meant.

I just know that my 2nd husband was a nice size and fit well , far better then the 10" because he just wasnt good at using what he had , no wonder men think women are obsessed with size I have read women's comment's here saying size does matter and I have read other women's comments stating the same thing I am saying so who know's gawd I feel for ya though.Good luck .

Answer 3

For those who implied that the woman in question must have an unusually large vagina...that is just as rude as her telling her husband about the size of former boyfriends' penises!! She is still this gentleman's wife and the fact that he is asking for advice regarding troubles in his marriage doesn't give anyone carte blanche to disrespect her (or him in the process). I agree with everyone who said size really doesn't matter. What is important is the level of intellectual and emotional intimacy a couple has. It seems to me that your wife is being very disrespectful, manipulative and, frankly, abusive. That is the real issue you should be contemplating. Her comments are designed to make you feel bad about yourself because she really has no self esteem and...misery loves company. Don't allow yourself to be mistreated this way. You need to get to the bottom of what is really going on. Try talking to her honestly without letting the discussion devolve into a fight, if that is possible. Let her know how much her comments and her behavior are hurting you and see if you can work together on ways to improve your situation. I wish you luck.

Kind Regards,

Bugchick

Answer 4

I personally think you are just on here to brag about the size of your member since the average member is only 5 inches... but I also am 7.5 inches and can tell you that most women have a problem with that size.... i guess the question that comes to mind is " Is your wife as big as the Grand Canyon?" if not then 7.5 inches is more than enough and if she is complaining try anal on her and I guarantee she will never say it is too small again.

Answer 5

I don't know if there is an answer to that. If she has problems with you, Why wait 3 years to bring it up? It would seem that she has a higher sex drive than you do. Does she ever tell you what she wants you to do? I doubt your a mind reader, Ask her what she wants, if she can't tell you that, What should you do? Get her a 10" dildo and see if she likes that? You two need to talk about what each of you are wanting, and try to get her to tell you what the problem is. You can't do anything to fix whats wrong if you don't know whats the problem to begin with. Not talking about what you both want is a sure way of hating each other before too long.

Answer 6

nope. trust me, we don't care that much - it's the whole package that gets us worked up, not just a little difference of a few inches in the nether regions. besides 7.5" isn't something to sneeze at, so you have nothing to worry about. (and just because someone has a bigger truck, doesn't mean they drive better.) if there are intimacy issues, maybe things just need to be spiced up a little. go to a toy store together and see what sort of things look interesting. what she picks might surprise you.

Answer 7

Why would your wife tell you the size of her ex' penis? That is sooo wrong! It's as if you would tell her how beautiful your ex's breasts were...I'm sure it'd make her feel like ****, don't you? You are just fine -normal- size. All you need to do is forget what she said and use what you have the best that you can. It's more about technique, feelings (LOVE), synchronization, and heart to heart connection, than anything else, really.

Answer 8

Hell yes!...ahem,I mean sure she fantasies about 9.5, but 7.5 is good as well. You may not be using your 7.5 correctly. She should never have mentioned that to you though. Nothing makes a 7.5 go to 2.0 faster. Ask her to tell you instead what she likes and how she wants it and try to put your own spin on it.

Answer 9

Dynamite comes in small packages. Its not the size of the bullet, its the power behind it. And the measurements u mentioned are ridiculous. Must be sillicon and that wont get up much. All a load of crap I tell u.She must have a load of space to fill. Try a tree trunk.

Answer 10

She is just bored or something...no woman would marry a man who's penis isnt big enough for them. Well maybe they would, but that is a marriage made in hell. Try to spice things up...oh, and she is actually talking to you about the size of her ex's member? That is just plain rude!! I think you need to think about that as well.