when they find out my man is white?? i'm mixed and none of my mixture is african american to begin with...so what if i date white guys...just happens like that...Do i really have to be lectured about it by someone who just wants my number? And why do they make it sound like dating a white guy is an avoidable medical condition "Awww now why you wanna go ans do taht to yourself" Am I dying of caucasian-itis? PLEASE ANSWER MY Q's it may be life or death
2007-09-21 17:13:52 · 13 answers · asked by Princess Consuela B. Hammock 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
don't even listen to them date who you want and when they start to ramble on about their reasons just tell them you gotta go... you have a man so it doesn't matter what any other man say to you
The same thing happens to me my man is white and im half black half white and there are guys who run tape with me say all kinds of sh--t i just tell them to fu--k off they dont know nothing thats goes on
2007-09-22 04:20:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a form of reverse rascism. Black boys put white men down over jealousy. They use ebonics whites can't understand, ( like when you printed"Awww now why you wanna go ans do taht to yourself". What is with all the grammar errors, and poor use of the English language? Any "black" man that talk like that, is trying to sound ghetto cool. What he really needs is schooling and employment.
I am quoting Colin Powell.
2007-09-21 17:28:01 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff R 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its not life or death im a white guy and ive dated a few black women ...one in particular i liked very much ,,,but we had a couple of problems with people about it and the ones that didnt like it well,,,we just kissed more around them lol...aslong as you and who ever you are dating are happy don't worry about the rest of them.
One good thing to do is remember what was said, like you did and have a come back, almost always your going to hear the same thing at first, this way you will already know what to say back because you've already heard it a million times or just ignore them
good luck every thing will be ok
2007-09-21 17:24:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Idk y they do that I'm 1/2 cherokee 1/2 caucasian and some dude was hitting on me and I said sry I have a bf he said oh let me guess he's a white guy am I right? I wuz like huh do they got a secret deseace I dont know about. Its crazy. Its the Axe body spray I bet bom-chika-wonwon lol!
2007-09-21 17:23:59 · answer #4 · answered by Naughty By Nature 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You can find the answer in your own frustration. The ones who do that are racist and you don't like that. Not to mention the fact it irritates you that's the best game they can come up with when pursuing a woman of your caliber
2007-09-21 17:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by troybuddy 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to those guys who are acting like that. They are incredibly close minded.
Just follow your heart and date whomever you please, regardless of their skin color. Why must love be limited by such a little thing like race? We're all human.
I'm Asian and I will date whoever I please. Race should not get in the way of a relationship.
2007-09-21 17:23:11 · answer #6 · answered by [nameless~light] 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stephan L - get real, you must be a liberal trying to make conservatives look bad. Blacks are mostly liberal, so it's the Liberals giving her a hard time!
2007-09-21 18:02:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jonathon O. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't take it personal, they just want you for themselves. It's an ego thing also, see blacks think that they are better for you than whites.....just as white think they are better for you than blacks. Take it as a complement and date whoever makes you happy.
2007-09-21 17:21:00 · answer #8 · answered by Rocman 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl they just want a chance themselves!! all guys do this no matter what race they are!!! he just wants to get laid!!! date the man who respects you and treats you well and makes you laugh.his color does not matter or lack of color either.be happy.
2007-09-21 17:29:09 · answer #9 · answered by dixie58 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let that bother you.. You live for you.. not for them or whoever.. The sooner you do that.. the better off you and your man will be ;)
2007-09-21 17:21:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋