I'm 18 and I have recently become sexually active, however, i have tried having sex with the same girl on two seperate occasions and i cannot ejaculate. I can ejaculate when i masturbate, but for whatever reason i cannot come when im with her. She's getting fustrated and she feels like shes the reason that i cannot come. Im very attracted to her and i don't know what to do. Please what's wrong with me?
2007-09-21 15:38:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Relax and enjoy it and you will be ok.Don't stress out about it.Do not think about not ejaculating just enjoy the moment.i think you are trying too hard and therefore missing the pleasure associated with sex.
2007-09-21 15:48:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude im 16 and have not sex yet..but i do masturbate a lot and i have sperm coming out i guess you just practice a lot. if you can not ejaculate during sex then after your girl is finish then let her finish you or you just continue to masturbate until you come. probably later you will ejaculate while having sex. thats blessing for you so that your girl will not get pregnant or maybe you are using condom while having sex. maybe you just remove your condon and wear it when your ready to come or just pracrtice withdrawal. maybe your tense that your girl will get pregnant tharts why you cant ejaculate. in any case just masturbate a lot it will make you practice well.
2007-09-21 23:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Reb Ne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have gotten too used to the way you masturbate. Try masturbating with the other hand, once you are able to ejaculate that way, the girl will be a cinch. Also if you are on antidepressants that can make orgasm difficult, but not impossible.
2007-09-22 02:34:38 · answer #3 · answered by Incarcerated Bert 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could just be over-thinking the situation. Have you put high expectations on yourself and the experience? Do you feel nervous with her? Sometimes when you are focusing on the needs of the person you are with (to make sure she is enjoying sex) you may not be feeling/enjoying yourself. This could cause you to not perform as you may usually do.
2007-09-21 22:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by khalsig 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax!! Your thinking too much about ejaculating. Everyone goes through this when they start having sex.
2007-09-22 00:50:53 · answer #5 · answered by Eric 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clearly you mastrubate alot. You may not be able to come with her because your body is so used to your hand. Try some new things.
2007-09-22 00:15:12 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have her give u head first it will help to increase your sex drive, then move on to the actual deed, try doing it in another location, for example in your ride
2007-09-21 22:50:21 · answer #7 · answered by h2guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two hours before sex, apply a chunk of peanut butter onto the head of your penis... It REALLY works well, and the girls love the taste. =)
2007-09-21 23:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by buckfuddy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
psychological imbalance.emotion,feeling and sex drive should be in unison not separately functioning.
2007-09-21 23:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by guillermo d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop having sex until you're married.
2007-09-21 23:23:43 · answer #10 · answered by SolaFide 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋