Okay I've heard all these people saying that by not trying they finally ended up pregnant. My question is how do you NOT try?? I mean by not trying aren't you kinda still trying?? Any good advice?
2007-09-21 15:00:35 · 6 answers · asked by greenrose1922 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
Hi! I was the winner by default on your other question. Ah ha! Yes, you should have mentioned that you were trying to conceive. My Aunt had the same problem. Married for five years and trying to conceive for three. Nothing. So, she tried "giving up." Ha! Yeah right. Still nothing.
Then she went to an accupuncturist. Victory! Not really sure how it worked, but who cares? The point is that she conceived within three months. Two years later, she did it again. Bam, one month. Now, she is going back to Dr. Tao for baby number 3. It's not just about sticking pins in your skin, it's about getting on the right vitamins and eating certain foods, etc. It's worth a try and MUCH less expensive than going to an infertility specialist (if it comes to that).
I heard something that may or may not be true about trying to conceive.... My friend was told by her doctor (allegedly) that she should masterbate (I'm sorry if this is TMI) and have an orgasm. THEN have sex with her husband. The doctor (allegedly) said that the contractions of the uterus during an orgasm prepare and encourage sperm to implant.... Not sure of the reliability of this information, but hey, a little orgasming never hurt anybody, right? lol!
Good luck, girl. I wish you the best!
2007-09-22 11:47:28 · answer #1 · answered by Yup Yup Yuppers 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This month I did not think of a baby till now because I had my last menstril cycle the 10th of August. Just dont think about it keep yourself busy clean your house go out and have fun with friends no drinking though.
My doctor says she really thinks it worked this time but wanted a blood test to show if I really was. I have not got the results yet but just dont talk about it go about your normal day as if this was never happening!
2007-09-21 22:10:16 · answer #2 · answered by lostinlove1919 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people who say that either never had problems trying to get pregnant, or just didn't care. A lot of women stress too much about concieving, so lay off worrying so much about perfectly timing sex, and whether or not your ovulating, and just enjoy yourself. I don't think they actually mean stop trying, it just means relax and stop worrying.
2007-09-21 22:09:43 · answer #3 · answered by heatherthepezlovinghippie 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't make sex a chore- or a task- just stop all the silly positions etc. And you are still kind of trying- but like i said enjoy sex for the sheer pleasure-
2007-09-21 22:11:14 · answer #4 · answered by babiesxx_xy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not trying is when you don't use birthcontrol or protection but you also don't monitor your cycles or use anything to help increase your chances of becoming pregnant
2007-09-21 22:11:13 · answer #5 · answered by momof3boys 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
not trying means no tracking no counting other than to know when your period is due not thinking about it
2007-09-21 22:08:48 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋