2007-09-21 14:42:13 · 28 answers · asked by Rita 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Yes when you lost a family member.
Time is the only cure.
2007-09-21 14:54:49 · answer #1 · answered by Lost. at. Sea. 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that you are depressed. Some incidents in your life will leave a permanent imprint on you. You must try to get perspective on it and learn what the fact that it occured says about you, others involved, and grow from there. No one incident speaks to all that is you. Just grow from there. If you are having trouble letting go, see a therapist and talk it out then, in your mind, one day walk away from it and don't entertain thoughts regarding it any longer. Close a door inside of your mind to it. Love yourself enough to let it begin to heal.
The fact that something bad has happened, or even a dozen or more things, doesn't have to define you. You have to seek to have your concious mind define who you are and where you are going today and everyday to come. Choose not to be broken. It is hard, but you can do it. If you don't have any spiritual beliefs, this is a good time to learn about the power of God.
All of this type of stuff is written about in the Bible as it is part of the human condition. If all else fails, call upon God to give you peace. Once you experience this peace, God will become your first source of comfort in the future.
2007-09-22 10:22:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. This happened to me sometime in the past. I was so broken inside, feeling lost...like I couldn't anymore see the dawning of a new hope. That was the time when my girlfriend (my first love) and I decided to call it quits because of some domestic issues. At that young age when the passion was so strong, and a sudden loss was so hard to take...I went swerving from one pain to another... Until there came a time when I woke up from that bad dream and realized that the world was still turning;..that everything didn't end like I thought it did. I turned to The Great One for peace from my turbulent experience, and started picking up the pieces of my heart. I knew then that unless I made my heart whole again,..I may not be able to love once more.
2007-09-21 23:16:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It happens to everyone. It's that feeling you get when you lose all hope of things ever going right again. That feeling you get that no one can help you. That feeling you get when you feel that no one could possibly KNOW what you're going through. I've been there; then again, I think a lot of people have been there. Those are the times we are usually at are lowest, and the only thing that makes us smile would be what left us that way in the first place. When we are out of that "comatose" phase though, we learn through an epiphany that life is so much more in this so small world. The irony of life, but that's the way it is. It is through those rough patches in life that we grow into our future selves. The part of ourselves that wants our children to grow up happy and not go through that. As we all know, however, they too will go through that.
Hang in there.
2007-09-21 21:53:36 · answer #4 · answered by StrangerAgain 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have on more than one occasion, but I really don't like feelings like this, so my positive feelings kick in and one minute I am broken, and the next minute I am fixed. I was really broken when I had to quit my job, due to lazy nurses who don't appreciate the things CNA's do so they don't have to, and a dispute with one nurse pushed me over the edge, the most hurtful thing is leaving the long term residents who live in the hospital, they counted on me and I felt I failed them by letting her get to me like that, but it did turn out for the best, I had to make it, I keep in touch with some of the residents, which I really feel I need to do, so they don't think I just abandoned them, and didn't care about them, they are some of my good friends, it just makes me feel better about myself and my hard decision to leave, and they do understand.
2007-09-22 00:13:36 · answer #5 · answered by robink71668 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea, but I think that is a part of being human. I always seem to come out on the top side. You can't fix something that isn't broken. Don't mess with mother nature!
2007-09-21 22:53:56 · answer #6 · answered by cowboybabeeup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Rena, I have felt very deep despair,Which i thought, would be the undoing of me.Lost,ed within a whirlwind of darkness.Walking the life shallow and with no purpose.Anger and pure rage,And self destruction overwhelming me.I really thought my life was doomed.But i know now, That there is all ways hope.To heal and become strong again.Love is a powerful tool for healing.
2007-09-21 23:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes. always. i feel broken inside me...i guess it has something to do with love since only this emotion can make us so helpless. it is a sad thing that we do feel such way especially if you think that no once can fix it anymore...but lst us be hopeful that someone will come our way to fix the broken pieces..
2007-09-22 10:43:57 · answer #8 · answered by mesmerize_pol 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can at times, but time does heal things, sometimes ever so slowly. God can heal the broken hearted though.
2007-09-21 21:52:38 · answer #9 · answered by faceeternity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have felt that way after every bad relationship that I've ever been in, while I spend all that time looking for the piece of my heart that is missing!!
2007-09-22 00:08:59 · answer #10 · answered by Ginny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋