My wife and I have been married for around a year now. The other day I got a speeding ticket for around 15mph over, my wife was furious she told me when she got home she was going to teach me a lesson. She ended up spanking me very hard with her hand. Most recently we were at a movie theater and I keep answering my cell phone and talking even when she told me not too. She made me put some kind of creme on my butt and instantly it started to burn badly. Is this normal I love my wife alot and we get along well. Is this something that I should divorce over?
Thanks for any answers
2007-09-21 14:03:54 · 22 answers · asked by soccerguy252004 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sounds like you're developing a DD (Domestic Discipline) relationship. Lots of people do this and it seems to work fine: it's slightly more common for the woman to get spanked by the man, but no reason why it shouldn't be vice versa. You say you love her and you get along well, so if you're happy to accept the punishments there's no problem. (Seems you deserve them, too - talking on your mobile in a cinema is stupid, thoughtless and immature behaviour.)
But if you want to, you could suggest that it becomes more mutual - that when she screws up, she gets spanked. Much more fun than a divorce.
2007-09-21 21:26:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋
First of all, I think that your wife may have some control issues. Not only do her "punishments" sounds somewhat cruel and demeaning... they are just plain weird. I think that you should have a serious discussion with your wife about this. Let her know how you feel. You are not her child and she does not have the right to treat you in that manner. You do deserve respect and she needs to recognize that if she loves you she should respect you also. (By the way... just want to add that it is extremely rude to talk on your cell phone in a movie theater). There may be some compromises the two of you can make. Last answer, no I dont think that this is something that you should divorce her over... unless you this behavior continues after your conversation. Also, she could consider counseling if nothing else. Good Luck!
2007-09-21 14:14:21 · answer #2 · answered by OhiosGirl 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like the lil lady has anger and control issues. None of what you're saying is normal.
And you....don't you have any consideration for the other patrons in the movie theater? Turn that dang cell phone off! You're not that important that you need to be reached 24/7.
2007-09-21 14:10:03 · answer #3 · answered by Elt 5 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I have all the power over my wife in a nice way but she does spank me when I ask her to. That's how it is. I do feel very very close to her afterwards for some strange reason.
2014-11-14 07:50:24 · answer #4 · answered by Blondie 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My wife started spanking me on our wedding night.
2015-08-27 07:32:41 · answer #5 · answered by markiee111 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I think you should do the same thing back to her. If she errs in anyway, spank her. She sounds like she may really be into a bit of s&m, and probably doesn't even realize it. You lucky man you!
2007-09-21 14:27:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it sort of sadistic to put painful cream on your bare butt--Since I am a guy who takes a deserved bare *** paddling from my long suffering wife--I should not be determining what is right for others! What you did was wrong-----just my opinion --get your bare butt spanked hard and I can assure you from my experience---you will think a long time about taking your cell phone into a movie! A bare spanking hurts ALOT no matter what age
2017-02-21 14:34:02 · answer #7 · answered by charles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you shouldn't divorce over this. Be a man and take it.
2014-12-17 11:12:28 · answer #8 · answered by hugh_jass_i_p_daily 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Leave her, your a grown man. Your the one who pays for the ticket not her. You don't have to let her boss you around. Run and don't look back
2007-09-21 14:12:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You should sit down and talk to her about it. Don't let her power you or you over her. Have an equal power. Respect eachothers decisions. BUT REALLY TALK IT OUT!!
2007-09-21 14:08:55 · answer #10 · answered by ninacoqueta0817 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋