For most of my life and I don't know why, I've tended to think negatively about many things.
Worries tend to huge concerns and for example, when starting new jobs or schools, I tend to think that no one is going to like me, and for some reason, it materializes and comes true.
Now it's beginning to affect me at my new job, and at first I was really beginning to love it! Now, the negative thinking is starting to take over and I can see how its impacting and influencing how my co-workers see me.
At first I know they liked me, now, due to these thoughts, I think their minds might be changing.
How is someone supposed to change thinking styles such as this, especially when they've lived with it for so long?
It's affecting the job that I love!
2007-09-21
12:38:54
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milly
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➔ Psychology