so i just broke up with my ex and i really want to get over him, but it sooo hard when he was my first boyfriend and the first to lose my virginity! wat do i do?!
2007-09-21 12:27:47 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You're 19. You know the answer. There's nothing anyone can do for you but sympathize and let time heal your soul.
2007-09-21 13:01:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jess 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
How are you doing today?
Theres a lot of water under the bridge now...
So the first step towards healing your wounds will be to accepting the fact that it is indeed over.
The fact that he was the first does not hold any meaning now..you do understand that it was not special now, don't you.
So decide right now that you need to hold off the physical thing until you are mentally ready for it in the future..take that decision right now.
And you need to take your mind off it, because it will only hamper your life and all the activities you do if you keep dwelling on the past.
I know it is easy to say, but very difficult to practice, but you are not alone in your endeavours to over-come your torments.
Thousands of people over the world go through this sometime or the other in their life, and they devise a personal strategy , unique to themselves ( after taking a conscious effort to fathom their personality and basic mental framework).
Take one day at a time to fight your demons.
Believe me you can do it.
Only don't get bitter about it or focus on placing the blame.
And right now, the focus area should be life.
Make the most of your life...You live only once.
I guess you should do just fine.
Take care.
2007-09-21 19:58:22 · answer #2 · answered by nk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look Im kinda going throught the same thing eccept the hard thing, but time only takes the pain away. Trust I just broke up with my ex thursday. God is writing your love story, dont rush him.
2007-09-21 19:33:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to sad love song that will wreck ur brain lik crazy lol... gurl do sumthing with your friends that you havent done in a long time he was ur first and won't be your last
2007-09-21 19:33:41 · answer #4 · answered by pandora's box 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing, go on with your life. Know that you will always love him, but you CAN'T be with him. Wish him well and put it in the Lords hands!
2007-09-22 00:43:15 · answer #5 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will never forget him cause he will always be apart of ur past .
healing takes time..... it's gonna be hard but u will find peace.
there will be other firsts :)
2007-09-21 19:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hook ya another one. plenty more fish in the sea.
2007-09-21 19:32:40 · answer #7 · answered by CHE 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋