Today I had a severe allergic reaction to medication in school. I knew I was having an allergic reaction, but I felt so crappy and ignorant and I wouldn't go to the nurse and I felt so crappy all day. By the end of the day I couldn't even talk without crying (throat felt like closing up), so here I am crying like a little idiot and the people I'm not friends with just judge me on one crappy day. I'm nice every other day, and they only judge me on one situation... GAR! How come people never care when you're being nice, but when you don't feel good, it's time for everyone to make you feel even *worse*?
2007-09-21 12:00:34 · 10 answers · asked by JustAGirlX 6 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Well to start there are people out there that just think it is fun to come on here and give people a hard time. BUT that is not everyone. Still it's that one jerk that makes things hard on a lot of people and he/she thinks it is the best entertainment to harass others. Please try to ignore those people and simply block them.
And honestly, "you know this" you should have gone to the nurse and maybe get something like benadryl to help with the allergic reaction and then have your parents get you.
Toughing it out through something like that could become very serious very quick!
Medication allergies are serious and you really need to tell your Doctor too.
:O)
Jerry
2007-09-21 12:27:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people do it because of serious self-esteem issues. They dislike themselves, and so they go around judging other people who have a bad day, to make themselves feel better.
Also, sometimes it is a learned behavior taught by parents, siblings, and other people.
And, as a learned behavior, it can be un-learned with persistence and effort.
I know how it is, having been judged myself based on how I was when I was sick and in pain.
I have had to learn to start liking myself, and to try to ignore those who go around judging people, although it's easier said than done.
I hope this helps.
2007-09-21 12:14:06 · answer #2 · answered by Noel N 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people don't have compassion or empathy for other human beings. Or anything for that matter. Those are the people that you brush off and laugh at later in life. Or you can just take it as a way to build yourself to be stronger. You shouldn't let people like that get to you. If they slow you down now, there are many things in life that are much harder. Just think of it as a learning experience.
If ya have anymore questions I would be glad to answer.
2007-09-21 12:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by mrsruhm 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its your own fault, because you KNEW what the problem was yet didn't seek help.
That is an extremely immature decision, so if that's how they judge you, too bad. Maybe you learned a valuable lesson.
2007-09-21 12:08:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry, people indulge in others' miseries...it takes the boulder off their own selfish and self-righteous shoulders.
it's like when u'r in a play and you say 'break a leg' sometimes u actually mean it. because, come on, if that girl/guy totally screws up it makes you look better.
so, don't worry, people are just crappy to you to avoid feeling crappy themselves.
2007-09-21 12:07:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
is true what you say!!
you look different, you feel crappy or you do something wrong and suddenly everyone notices =/
and when we do the best, is like we need an extra effort for people to notice the good things on us.
2007-09-21 15:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard the saying "kick them when they're down"? That's what they are doing. It is important to always keep positive and not be a dope when you're sick, go to the nurse. Don't let anyone see your vulnerability unless you want them to.
2007-09-21 13:23:53 · answer #7 · answered by Hot Coco Puff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-19 08:42:04 · answer #8 · answered by abdulla 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up. i am sorry to tell you that it doesnt get any better the older you get. when someone gets in a bad mood it puts others in a bad mood. i get my husband in a bad mood all the time when i have a bad day. its bad. just blow it off and let tomorrow be a new day. ignore what they say and be positive.
2007-09-21 12:12:40 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one likes to see a crappy face any part of the day, as it sure makes them want to crap as well.
Use a Phardha when you think you getting a crappy day next tiem, this way, your crappy face won't disturb others my dear.
2007-09-21 12:08:51 · answer #10 · answered by Barbara A 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋