Yeah..thats my problem.I am so sick of people telling me you're so sexy or so beautiful.Besides i don't have female friends because of that and i have so many good guyfriends.When i have awalk,also people start looking at me and now i hate going out because of that..any one has a suggestion or an answer for me?
2007-09-21 11:01:15 · 22 answers · asked by crazy_lover 2 in Beauty & Style ➔ Other - Beauty & Style
Maybe you shouldnt be so cocky and arrogant. Maybe you will get more friends.
2007-09-21 11:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
Is this a serious question? I'm not saying that to be a jerk, just that it's sort of an odd question. I guess you could do one of two things:
1) Learn to be comfortable with it, but don't let it go to your head. Say "thank you" and compliment the person back. Develop some other aspect of yourself so hopefully people will see something more and be confident. If someone doesn't like you because your attractive, that's there problem.
OR
2) Gain 50+ pounds, stop showering, wear old, smelly clothes and don't brush your teeth.
I know what I'd pick ;)
Seriously though, I didn't have many girl friends until recently and most of my girl friends are also hot or tomboys. (I'm a girly tomboy, I guess...) At any rate, women are a lot more judgmental on appearance than men are. But to be honest with you, I'd rather have beers with the guys most nights than talk gossip about other people with the girls. Girls are nice for shopping, the spa, and talking about boys, but they tend to be petty, judgmental and unforgiving. Guys just want to kick it most of the time, and as long as you aren't too emotional, they don't really care about a lot of things. (They do care, but they'll hang out with most people if they're cool because guys are into having fun, not overanalyzing everything.)
So, to sum it up, you aren't missing much in my opinion. Good girl friends are few and far between. Good guy friends are plentiful.
Good luck!
PS- After reading other responses I have more to add. If you are naturally sexy, even if you don't think so (thus why you're weirded out by the attention), wearing plain or baggy clothes and your hair in a ponytail WILL NOT help. Also, not wearing make-up WILL NOT help. 97% percent of the time I get hit on, looks, whatever, I throw on whatever happened to be clean or semi-clean, tossed my hair up and ran out the door looking half-way dishevled.
Just realize that's who you are and don't worry about it or let it go to your head. Also, you could find an extremely hot guy, but I would recomend someone with a brain and a good personality who treats you right, even if he's not Mr. Stud. ;)
2007-09-21 18:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by Brittae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first off maybe dressing less sexy may help. Second, maybe being less full of yourself around girls would help with gaining girlfriends. Even the most beautiful women in the world have friends if they are nice people on the inside.
2007-09-21 18:06:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy it while you can, too many people are limited by ugly.
In 20 or 30 years you will wish for it back.
You have an opportunity to select an equally sexy mate. although some people consider it shallow, knowing that you look good makes you feel better.
2007-09-21 18:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by apup76 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wear your hair in a pony tail. Dress plain with no makeup. Wear loose fitting clothes.
Otherwise take their compliments with grace because people would love to have the same compliments you get.
2007-09-21 18:18:42 · answer #5 · answered by tofu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start eating really bad, greasy foods... so that you can blow up to 300 + lbs and your skin can look really bad.
Then put on a pair of real thick bi-focals and some stretch pants pulled way up so that you have highwaters and a camel toe.
that'll keep em' away...
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2007-09-21 18:07:12 · answer #6 · answered by mikey 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wear longer skirst (knee length is good) wear baby doll shirls and t-shirts and flowy things. wear flats and flip flops instead and not heels. also it is the way you act. if you act sexy and all then that can make people see you like that. you should also try more to get girl friends. go up to them adn talk to them. find people who have the sam eintrests as you. less make up and the hair style can also make you less sexy but still pretty (dont go all baggy close and ugly)
2007-09-21 18:06:48 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
well what are you wearing.... is your clothes really revealing... because i have the same problem... but i don't wear revealing close... I'm actually very covered up... and my mother hates that she wants me to show more isn't that weird... well any ways if your wearing revealing clothes... try to cover up more... and if people think your still sexy... than just ignore them... or tell them to stop it... because most likely they will... but hey at least there not saying your ugly right.
2007-09-21 18:12:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing. Dress in baggy non-descript looking clothes that don't call attention to yourself. I'm sure that will help.
2007-09-21 18:06:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem ... but someone told me i am too obsessed with my self thats why notice all these things happening to me!... i guess these things r pretty normal and happen u girls all the time...when u get to hang around with other girls u will see
2007-09-21 18:05:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe just be weird and stick your tongue out at them or something, lol XD
Umm....just try not to wear revealing clothes to much if ya do. :3
2007-09-21 18:06:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋