Does any one know any Libras? Does he like me?

Question

I am a Scorpio dating a Libra... we are not serious b/c there is no point, I want to be free- but I have been dating this v cool Libra, we went out last night but he said some hurtful things to me that I keep on pondering: He thinks he so art chic and told me that my corporate world was immature! Then we proceeded to have sex at his house, he said that I was usually not his type and that he wasn't attracted to me when we met! He also said that b/c we were now having sex that I probably wouldn't want to hear from him again! All the rest of him is sweet, but sometimes out of no where he says these things that bother me! Do you think he was just saying stuff? Or he really means it. I know that when I was younger I used to twist words around for emotional control, like he maybe doing... is he? Oh then he made me cuddle w him for an hr before work and kept on kissing me- he also text me at lunch time saying "I hope you got to work okay, I had a good time w u, thanks for sharing that w me"

No he has no Scorpio influence...

To the first question I never say anything mean to him and I am very uncommitted and not jealous, I know I am not his only special friend as he is not my only- it is fairly harmonious, he is suppose to be my friend!

Answer 1

yes i divorced one...you should find a Pisces for real romance...

Answer 2

Well, from experiences for scorpions that i know, they can be pretty analytical. Does he say these things after you, unknowingly, may have said something judgmental or analytical? Libras are quick to defend and rarely hold back on what is on their mind. Normally, Libra's have no problem attracting folks to them. They are charismatic. Takes a special person like a Leo to get their attention. Most cheat in relationships but holds dear to their main choice. Meaning, they will dump a sex partner real quick if it jeopardizes relations with their main squeeze but most cheat and hold no remorse while doing so. Do not be surprised if you are not his only "special freind"

Answer 3

Makes sense to me, but I am dating a Libra. I do not understand your question fully so here goes my answer. Does he like you for a relationship probably not, but he likes the situation you two are in now. He does have feelings for you but not as a long term relationship. Libras love to cuddle and be close to people. Libras do play guilt trips which is what he was doing when he said that you probably would not talk to him if you were not having sex. It was just his Libra way to fish for a compliment. They like to hear how good they look or how nice they are. He said that he was not attracted to you when you met mostly because sometimes Libras do not have tact. He was just epressing how you seem to have grown on him as time has gone by. You know how when you first meet someone you do not think they look good, but as time goes on and you get to know them they look better. If I was you I would not put to much thought into his comments as long as you are only into this for sexual gratification. If you do start to have feelings for him then it might get tricky. I would try to keep this certain situation on a purely physical level or you might end up getting burned in the long run.

Answer 4

I am a Scorpio Married to a Libra, an mine is a quiet, loving, and really just listens to me talk most of the time. But when he is upset at something I did or said he isn't shy then, he tells me and sometimes he hurts my feelings but, he always tells me, he is sorry. But I wouldn't have anyone else, the other men I dated couldn't conpare. And I the bedroom he is the one.

Answer 5

Yikes! I'm a Libra, and I don't do that! First of all, Libras are very refined, so I don't know why he'd just blurt out that he wasn't initially attracted to you. That sounds more like something a Sagittarius or Virgo would say, they can be honest. But the deal with Libras, we want to be in a relationship and we like being in a relationship. But we're air signs. We like our independence and freedom. So even though we can be in a relationship, we'll always wonder if it's better to be single and keep ourselves free. Plus, we're romantics. We want our relationships to be perfect. When they aren't, we want to be on the look-out for the perfect one. I don't cheat around though, like people say Libras do. Not all Libras cheat. (Oh, and Cancers are supposed to be super-faithful, and I supposedly got cheated on by a Cancer). So what it sounds like to me is that he likes you and enjoys your company but is afraid of getting to close, so he's finding ways of pushing you away. That way if you break it off, it takes the heat off of him. We hate hurting people so we don't want to say anything, but we get scared. Tell him how you feel and then leave it at that. Once you leave it in his court, he'll either leave you and keep you. But don't push. That'll only push us away. Just tell him how you feel, continue to see other guys if you'd like, and he'll wise up. If he really likes you and realizes that he's close to losing you, trust me, he'll come back sweeter than ever. Then you can give him the "knock it off" talk. Good luck!

Answer 6

i've seen the good and bad typed librans. not all of them are angels, just as not all are bad. its NOT a matter of FEAR of getting too close , its a matter of being unable to decide. maybe it takes time to weigh some decisions, but if you take too much time some of them end up getting other people hurt. keep an emotional distance, until he understand what he really wants. but if it takes too long don't wait around for him.

Answer 7

I don't know if this has anything to do with astrology. Sounds like he might be mentally unstable to me. But even if he does like you; do you like him enough to ride along on his little mental roller coaster every time you are together. You would be better with a piceses.