ok i want to be safe and i know the only way to be completly safe is to abstain and im to young for sex and i should wait i know i have heard it all but honestly its a decision i have choose to make in a committied relationship with someone i love and trust and plz dont say your to young to be in love but please help me with this question i want to get on birth control for the extra protection but im not ready to tell my mother yet that im having sex so does she have to go with me to get birth control is there any way i can get it without her knowing i live in GA if that helps plzz im serious about this
2007-09-21 10:21:23 · 13 answers · asked by nikel 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
o sorry im15
2007-09-21 10:28:37 · update #1
Honey check out and see if there is a planned parenthood in your area. Or go to a high school counsler or an adult you trust to not tell. You may be too young to be in love you may be too young to have sex. But honey I give you 100% props for taking the steps to be safe. Remember always use a condom also. Birth control is not 100% effective. And you still need to worry about std's. Always get tested for STD'S even if he says he is only sleeping with you. And even if you are only giving oral sex and recieving. You can still contract a STD if you are sucking on areas of genitals that are not covered with a condom or a vag shield. You can check planned parent hood online I believe. Good luck . And be safe
2007-09-21 10:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there are a couple things to take into consideration.
If you go to your regular obgyn and if you don't want to pay full price for the birth control, you'll have to use your parents health insurance. This means they will find out you went behind their back when they get their next insurance statement. So it may be better to talk to them first. Or maybe the one who does the bills.
If you have never gone to an obgyn or want to make sure this stays private, Planned Parenthood is a great place to go. Have your boyfriend go with you if possible. That way you can both be tested for STDs as well. You may have to pay a bit more to keep it a secret, but it's worth every penny to be safe.
2007-09-21 10:34:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to start make sure to keep in mind that every time you have sex, birth control or not, there is a chance of getting pregnant. Make sure you are ready to deal with it if it happens. Also make sure that you really want this guy to father your children.
Ok that said call your local health department and ask about there rules. You might also check with planned parenthood. My guess is that at 15 you cannot go to the doctor and be treated without your parents consent.
2007-09-21 10:34:04 · answer #3 · answered by Melissa S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
make sure your really ready and that your not being pushed into where you will regret later on!! and go talk to your doctor or a youth clinic they are usually very lennient and will give u some cuz they want 2 see u be healthy and safe, but even while on birth control always use a condom as well for the extra protection cuz you never know everything has a flaw and you dont want to risk anything at all...
2007-09-21 10:31:25 · answer #4 · answered by hot_californian_girl69 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? I think minors have to have a parent with them to get birth control. It may be different in your local area, not sure.
I'm proud of you for trying to do the responsible thing, but if you really want to be responsible, talk with you doctor and your mother. If you chose to only talk to your doctor, there is doctor patient privilege...Dr cannot tell anything without your consent, unless you are endangering yourself.
But at least talk to the dr to get all the necessary info...and have your boyfriend come with...he needs to know these things as well. And if either of you are too embarrassed, then sweetheart, you are not ready for this MAJOR milestone.
2007-09-21 10:26:13 · answer #5 · answered by Green Is Sexxxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey,
i have 6 wonderful children (& 1 more on the way!)
& i just want to let you know that if something goes wrong, this is a life-changing descision, you could die from stds or you could become pregnant
my tips to you are to use a condom & to use a brilliant birth control pill (search best birth control pills on google)
& after sex, go to your doctor to see if you're preggers
remember that your boyfriend could also only be with you to get into your pants, so be very careful!
good luck & best wishes!
- Mrs. H
2007-09-21 10:29:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call your local Planned Parenthood and explain to them what you posted here. They do not judge you and will communicate with you only in the ways you suggest for them to (e.g.. cell phone, email, things of that nature) for your and only YOUR privacy.
As far as you having sex...the way I see this situation is it is your business, but be ready for any and ALL consequences that may come your way. You are smart enough to see the safest method is NOT HAVING SEX at all, but in retrospect I feel you're mind is made up, so please be responsible. In no way shape or form am I cheering you on because you are going to do what you are going to do. Just be careful!
2007-09-21 12:07:35 · answer #7 · answered by snowman68 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could look up the number for a clinic or planned parenthood in the phone book; then call. (From a payphone if you don't want someone snooping in your cell "recent calls"). Tell them you want to know if you can get BCwithout parental consent. Worst they can do is say "No" or "We can't tell you" -which is another way of saying "no". If they can't help you. maybe they can tell you somewhere nearby that can help you.
Good luck, and good to see you're thinking!
2007-09-21 10:40:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all you cant get BC (birth control) because of your age but if you have a friend whom you trust you could ask him/her to get the pills or dont have sex thats the easyist way or get pregnant my wife and i have 3 kids and I nor her mind it is great having a baby and you need to get married before you have sex but thats your choice. Thank You!
2007-09-21 10:30:05 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel1027 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-26 21:31:03 · answer #10 · answered by laurella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋